Why did she say these awful things to me?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend who reached out to me. I talked told her it was nice hearing from her to we could keep in contact. I told her I was offered a new job. and doing pretty well. She says " well you've been working pretty hard the last few months to get that" I said " no, I was called and asked to apply " she says I thought you wanted to go to a different place, I said no, I didn't. I told her " I'm dating , working on a long term partner" she says " gotta find that man" wtf. Then she texts me this ghetto guy giving relationship advice. I've asked her not to text me links. I told her that I don't want all these links and I don't want my phone beeping like that. She then blows up and sends me this long thread. About " my life is going the wrong way, and friends like her are hard to find" she then calls and tells me my life is in shambles, she can read between the lines. I told her if she wants to read between the lines with negativity instead of looking at the positive then to don't contact me again. Why is she doing this? Wtf

[spartan55]

I guess just deleting a link is just too much for you?

[Asker]

She's been doing it for months and it's constant 3-4 x weekly.

[spartan55]

I guess so.

[Asker]

What do you mean " I guess so"

[Asker]

It's not just that , my stomach drops every time I tell her something. She always has something negative to say. She even told me. " your life is in shambles I can read between the lines" my life isn't in shambles but if it was then this would be a mean thing to say to someone

[spartan55]

So why you even friends with her?

[Asker]

Dude, she contacted me. I tried to be nice and polite. I don't need someone contacting me constantly sending me stupid links to articles and pulling out negativity. This isn't my issue it's hers. For you to tell me what can't I just ignore it? Do you want me sending you fricken 3-4 texts a week? It's rude and it's Intrusive. She should have just apologized and not sent the Nedra but she gets explosive and says mean hurtful thighs to me telling me my life is in shambles? Wtf. Telling me she can read between the lines of my life? Wtf: we all have negative things in our life and I do the best I can do/ go grab a bone, dude: You sound like the same narcissist that she is.

[spartan55]

Excuse me crazy girl? I asked why you are friends with her and you twist off over? Couldn't even make sense of it. by the way... dont try to use a buzzword personality disorder (and label someone too) when you clearly don't know what it means. You are only embarrassing yourself.

[Asker]

Actually, I'm not embarrassing myself , you are dude. This platform is for questions and answers and you answered rudely " I guess deleting a link is too much for you is rude" I was asking about her rude behavior. And, I can ask any damn think I want on here

[spartan55]

Lol... okay, sure thing honey. Sounds like you have it all figured out. Funny why you won't answer why you are even friends with her. "she contacted me" what does that have to do anything? And where did I say you couldn't ask the question you want.
Quit making shit up crazy girl.

[Anonymous]

Is she single or not in a hethy relationship? She might be projecting her insecurities on to you. Some people just can't understand some people are single and actually pretty happy.

[Asker]

I think that's what it is... exactly. She then tells me I get too offended. I don't think I should deal with her anymore