Am I overthinking this situation?

[Anonymous]

Me and this girl been talking since October. Been seeing each other at least once a week. She has kids and I don’t. So this past weekend we spent it together and I stayed at her place. We had sex the whole weekend. Visit her mom and stepdad. Went to the bar. She told me that she had an amazing weekend and appreciated me seeing her family. Last time I talked to her was Sunday night. I called her Monday evening and she didn’t answer. Texted her that I called her and no reply. Even texted her good afternoon earlier.

My mind is racing. I overthink a lot. I’m waiting for her to call or text, cause I did my part. Why would she say all that. Then stop all contact?

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She texted me late last saying good night. I texted her this morning. Asked her if I can see her. She said that she’ll be busy. I said that I would love to see her this weekend. She replied back “maybe”

[AmandaYVR]

That's stressful. I'm sorry.

We internet strangers can't know the mind of some random woman, though. Could mean something, could mean nothing.

Better just wait to find out. You've called and texted at least 3 times. Don't do anymore right now. Maybe she needs time to think.

If you don't hear from her after a week, it'd be your prerogative to speak frankly to her, and go into detail about how confused you are. You deserve an explanation at some point. But try not to completely panic yet. It takes days off your life.

[AmandaYVR]

Sounds like you might be smothering her. Ease off now. Let her come to you. You can't keep people by holding on tight.
If there are misunderstandings, then yes, try to clarify those. But if that's not the case, ease off. Make it known you are there, but don't smother.

[Anonymous]

So Monday as in yesterday? Relax, she’s a mom, probably works and gets busy. If you two aren’t in a relationship then you may not take the same priority in her life as other things, and unless you wanna get serious then that should be ok.

[Asker]

So even when I call she sends me straight to voicemail and she text back I’ll call you back three hours ago

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, even then. If she’s busy right now then maybe you should do the same. Otherwise you’re going to freak yourself out more than you already are. On top of that it will look too needy/clingy.

[Guy13]

Yeah, let it go.

[HappyWoman34]

Sounds like she didn’t want anything serious. Sorry mate.

[joeldalton]

sounds like she's fading on you.