
Ladies, when was the moment you realized he really did love you?

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My job can be really stressful at times. Early-ish in our relationship, I was getting burnt out and honestly wasn't sure if I was going to continue Werth the job. She sat me down and told me that she was going to support me no matter what I decided to do.
That was more affirmation that she loved me, but it was also the realization that I found a great one.
The time he got mad at me for talking to his brother bc I got him mad for a whole 2 weeks and I wanted to talk to his brother while going hiking and i wanted to talk about him and only him to make sure he's ok and how to handle the situation, so he drove by and saw me talking to his brother bc he saw his brothers car and he stop and flipped out on me, we started arguing none stop this was in the summer, his brother left and wished me luck bc his temper is insane, but we argued from 4pm till almost 12pm at night and then it started raining it was kinda like a movie, and he's a hard guy he doesn't talk about his feelings at all and that night he let himself be vulnerable that whole night, he told me everything how he loves me how it hurts him to love me and he wants an actual life with me, and I fell in love with him all over again,
We've been friends for 9 years and finally dating for 6 months but it feels like we've been dating for a while
It was last May and not to long before the day we graduated high school when me and Alex my now boyfriend but he was best friend and my crush at the time were touring the college we both attend now with a few other students and after the tour guide finished showing us the outside of the campus we all went to this room and listened to people talk about the school for about an hour but soon I started getting cold because the room had the air conditioning on because it was really hot that day and Alex asked me how I was doing and I said I was fine just a little cold and after I said that he took off his jacket and gave it to me and that's when I realized I wasn't just crushing on him I was in love with him 🥰
It was in his look. I would say or do something and he’d look at me as if he was thinking much longer than the average person would. I kept asking “What is it?” He shake his head slightly and the corner of his mouth would rise in a part smile, as if holding a secret. It drove me crazy at first. Now I love and aim for that reaction from time to time.
It was a gradual realization but I would say the point when it became obvious to me was when my roommate was gone and I was complaining about being alone and he drove out to make me feel better, about 45 minutes round trip, he had to be at work in the morning (I was still in college at the time).
When he traveled 61km riding a motorcycle just to see me and went back home the next day.
When he waited hours for me outside my school and walked home with me EVERY SINGLE DAY.
When he only got a dollar in his pocket and spent it to buy me food because I didn't ate any.
I never asked for any of that from him. He did it willingly. Then I realized he truly loves me. No other man can do it for me if they don't love me as much.
When we were getting to know each other only 5 weeks dating and I noticed he didn’t touch my hand nothing just good bye hug and I though this is it he doesn’t like me.
I thought he didn’t like me and I told him I like you but you don’t like me you cut my wings lol
He said no I like you too ,, he then hugged me right away. Within 10 min we hugged a lot hold hands and we shared our 1st kiss
All this happened last week !
Wish me luck it continues 🥺✨
Early 2021, we were still in quarantine. My son who was 15 at the time was diagnosed with psychosis and we sent him to a psychiatric hospital for his own safety. It broke my heart to see him like that. I was stressed out with work and raising my other kids. My fiancé, then boyfriend was always there for me. We'd regularly get tested for covid and he would help me with my other kids and was always there to comfort me at night when I'd cry myself to sleep until my son was out of rehab.
When he stuck around. I usually keep guys at a friend's level, and I knew he liked me, but he didn't push and unlike the other guys who'd move on, he stuck around.
Well I still don’t know really, but I guess one indication was when I drank too much alcohol and I vomited. He cleaned it up, put me in the shower and basically showered me, put me to bed, had a sick bucket next to me and when I woke up the next morning everything was spotless and really tidy and he was ill too but did all this for me. I knew then that he at least cared deeply about me. I’d like to think love but who knows.
When we were first dating we hadn't had sex yet. Another girl who is a complete bitch is absolutely gorgeous offered herself to him and he refused her.
It only took a few weeks after we first started dating. I could just feel it.
The look he gives me when I touch his face or simply laughing that is a look of someone that is in love.
When he starts talking in the "WE" and the "US"
In the middle of flicking my bean I one knew it was over
Hopefully I can come back to this question by the end of the year with an update 😪😪
He was always there, and he didn't leave