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Ok, soo backtrack a year and a half ago my partner got caught texting another lady whilst I was pregnant. Anyway fast foward since then I've never seen him being physically disloyal. But I am a crazy jelous person and I admit that. Anytime we go out and I see his eye look for longer then I think it should at a women I get jelous, if he makes comments about women I get jelous. He knows this about me.. it is something that I am trying to work on. Anyway, I don't feel like we should really anyway be talking about others or whatever in a relationship. He has been watching big brother and basically there is a female in there. I was listening to a song of her ex the other day. And he made a comment saying 'how good she looks tonight' and I said 'who?' And she said it was that girl, her makeup and stuff. Anyway i automatically thought why the F is he telling me this when he knows what I'm like. And he said well I said it because her ex song was up on the screen. And after me asking him again why are you telling me that, it's unnecessary. He said he was joking and wanted to see my reaction. I just find it so completely disrespectful that he disregards my feels in this way and would still make such comments despite knowing I have a problem with it. All he says is that I'm crazy and that he wouldn't care if I said some other guy was good looking, which is right he wouldn't: but the fact he is doing it to me which is what I find out of order.
what do you guys think?
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This is very immature and frankly hurtful behavior. I mean man, come on, let the past go you little boy-man. Not trying to be rude but you have a wife and she has feelings. Sorry to ramble.
Thank you! So I'm not just being over sensitive?
He tells me that I'm crazy for thinking wrong when he says stuff like that. And I should know his personality by now and that he jokes. But comeon man. Lol
Yeah, his heart is not right and you should not have to deal with that. Hopefully, he has a strike of maturity and consideration for those closest to him.
Well we have a 1 year old son together who he adores. He is very close with his family and 2 sisters. So I really don't get it.
He's blaming you for something and life would be lots easier if he would come clean about it.
He is being very disrespectful of you and your feelings.
You can correct me but it sounds like this issue is about lack of trust - which is something that fuels jealousy and that lack of trust is rooted within a action he made. He should be making an effort to make it easier for you to gain that trust back, him regarding your feelings and jealousy is doing excactly the opposite.
Based on what you've said, I'd be pretty upset too
Yep that's exactly what it is! And that's why I've completely had enough. I don't think I can be in this relationship any longer. It seems that he is trying to make me jelous for some weird reason when I never have given a reason for him to try that. If it's for his own ego I am better of without him as it made me literally so upset the whole day and night I couldn't eat or anything and all he says to me is that i have issues.