She never had good shoes for YEARS and I was going to buy her new shoes. But then she went to Dubai and purchased new shoes from there.
I asked her to show me those. ( as a partner we love to see things that she buys right)
asked her 2,3 times and then a week later she showed me one shoe. Because she was sitting right infront of it.
for the next one, I asked almost 10+ times !!! Today a month later I asked it again and she showed me only because she was wearing it today..
what do you think about this behaviour?
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Your lady friend seems very very secretive. It seems like it is part of her personality. What else does she do this with? Have you two ever had any relational issues?
We’re happy in everything else. But she doesn’t show me any of her dresses, shoes or such things even if I ask several times. That kindof sharing and getting opinion from partner lacks from her side.
She’s not even taking such little effort’s even when I ask, So I think I’m slowly reducing my efforts too
That’s a wrong road to go down together but what can you do 🤷🏻♂️
Very strange. Is that really all there is to the story, or have you left context out? I find it hard to believe that she’s so reluctant to show you the shoes, unless maybe someone else like a sneaky link bought them for her.
No, she went to her parents. There are no stories behind. I had to ask 10-12 times for a shoe pic!! And finally got it after a month.
She have this kind of behaviour when asked to show something. All other behaviours are nice and we have emotional attachment too.
Would you be okay? What would you do?
I would be very suspicious, and confront her about her strange behaviour regarding the shoes.
She too lazy to take a pic actually. Imagine taking not even a little effort
What the hell is going on here?
Whats your opinion
I'm still to trying understand your issue or questions. But by reading others comments and your responses. You either live separately or you are in a religion that sets both of you apart from living together. That would explain the knowledge of her clothes or shoes.
I live with my wife I don't have to ask her anything or even wonder about her stuff. It's just there. I can walk in the closet and see all her stuff. You in the other hand. You talk as if she is your daughter.
But if she is just your girlfriend. Then that's it. U have no reason to smother her. This is why relationships fail. Either you have trust. Or leave each other. If loyalty has been damaged from her then the relationship has been over. If you were the reason of loyalty issues. Then she has no reason to be questioned.
Yes we are distant temporarily. So sending photos are the only way to now. Not actually a matter of trust.