So me and my partner have had a rough few months due to her being triggered. We slowed our relationship down due to her needing space and time. Basically we've gone from texting and talking each day to text every few days. We see each other maybe once a week or once every two weeks. We were long distance before so we would only see each other once a month.
What I'm struggling with is she said I had pushed her boundaries due to me asking what was going on? I had noticed something was wrong for a few weeks. I waited a bit for her to come tell me all I got was that she needed to fix something. Another few days pass and she only said their is something wrong. It literally took me finally putting my foot down and asking for a explanation after she got angry towards me for proposing we go back to my place after a fun date night.
It sound alike she's using that as an excuse to push you away & break things off.
Seriously, it's not a boundary being crossed to be asked a simple question out of concern.
She's twisting your concern into a "crossed boundary" to make you the bad guy so she can drift off distancing herself even further.
That's what I felt like.
No one should ever make you feel like you don't know where you stand with them..
If you're being treated any less than the way that You feel you deserve.. Then it may be time to consider moving along.
Thanks for that insight