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My boss she started i want to say 1 month ago soon after she started to share personal things about her past. Then i always shared something about myself.
i always thought it was a start of a emotional intimacy relationship but I'm really not sure.
i always thought it was a start of a emotional intimacy relationship but I'm really not sure.
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Be careful man. Maybe she just wants attention and not something intimate. Someone here once mentioned the phrase "Emotional Tampoon". Maybe she just wants someone to talk to about stuff. If you really want to know if there is anything more to this, invite her to do something out of work. Make it as casual as possible. If she doesn't want anything to do with you outside of work she will make all the excuses in the world. Try it three times if you want just in case if she really has a legitimate reason. Secondly, if she really wants something more or is open to exploring that option, she will try and reschedule it. If its a no on three separate invitation and she doesn't try to make something happen by rescheduling it, then trust me my friend, she doesn't like you that way. Understand that if a person likes you, they will try to do anything just to be around you.
Also i know someone is ultimately going to say dont date anyone at work. And in a way they are right, but if you think you can be adult about it when it goes south or can afford to lose the job then go for it. Life is too short
She's your boss. Nip this thing in the bud NOW.
Classify it as not a relationship -- because it shouldn't be.
why shouldn't be?
It should not be a relationship because she's your boss. The only relationship between you should be work. You need to do work without consideration of any intimacy or personal feelings and she needs to be able to make work decisions without intimacy or feelings.
Plus there's probably policy at your work about bosses and workers having relationships.
Here's the thing: I've been in the workforce now for 35 years. Not once in that time have I ever seen a work relationship work out. All of them were crazy drama filled nightmares.
i get that but then why does she tell me personal things about her past thats not being a boss
Great question and I would say objectively a combination of lack of self control and not great abilities in this part of her being a manager.
Either a friendship or she likes you