Why are more women spending too many years into dead-end relationships?

[Anonymous]

Since most of them eventually want children, aren't they going against their own biology (they're shooting themselves in the foot by doing that) by spending years into dead-end relationships.

Meanwhile men are being more careful with their resources and their gatekeeping role, the women aren't careful with their youthful years, aren't spending it wisely and getting out on time?

Instead you hear more stories of women spending 4-8 years, continue hoping they will have kids, etc. Why even take that risk of spending years, of wasting your best years?

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1 y

Ever since I was a kid, I already knew my limited time to have children. I find it stupid to be spending all your 20's on a very long relationship heading nowhere.

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1 y

Men are guarding and treasuring their resources more than ever. So why aren't more women treasuring their precious years and using it wisely?

[magiusX26]

modern day feminism taught them (falsley) that they can be the men themselves and still get a good man, with society re-enforcing this belief for too long. now that the actual men who these women would happily marry/stay loyal too in the now distant past caught on, more and more will not have them, leaving them to the few guys (in the US something like 70k to 150k) they (a few million women) desire based solely on emtional thinking to share (whether they want to admit or even realize it) share again and again. add to that a twisted byproduct of "everybody is a winner" thinking which has most (almost all) self rating as a "10" devaluing that scaling to where what they call a "10" to now be the new average which makes 10 the new 4 to 6. call it romantic inflation. all this while thinking the other muliple millions of men they will want later will just wair for them to come around with someone else's illegitamate child to raise. with all that these same women (mentally comes across as entitled little child/girls) bewildered why no one wants them as used, scratched, and dented goods at above full price for a brand new item.

[inhua]

feminism sold women a poor bill of goods and society is suffering from it as a result

instead of warning other women about the issues with feminism, they just wanna repackage it and sell it to other women thus creating a snowball effect

one of the lies told by feminism is every guy out there is a jerk but since women are still attracted to men, they might as well go for the biggest jerk and the more of a jerk they are the more attractive that man is. that's where all her best years go to

and then comes the cycle of abusive relationship after abusive relationship until they finally "mature" only to start shaming the men would've been better off going after in the first place as "creeps" for going after better women

[LazerBean]

Most people were poorly raised and taught to have fun in their young years and put off being smart till later. The men these days aren't much better than the women.

[Tomisworthless]

Many women just can’t do better or they are in love and are hoping things get better by sticking things out. I mean I wouldn’t really know just my opinion I wasted my 20s I’m sure I will regret when I’m much older but currently I just live in this… void of emptiness and darkness

[Jamie05rhs]

Women don't have long-term vision. They only think in the here and now. They also choose to take the path of least resistance instead of doing hard things that will be more beneficial to them in the long run; because feelings trump logic.

[Jamie05rhs]

The other thing is that women are extremely gullible. They are easily played by men who want to take advantage of them (even after being warned by other men.)

[serious_miss419]

Well who are they spending the relationships with?

[Asker]

Losers that won't commit and make women waste all their 20's, only to either leave them in their 30's or the woman herself walks away but her time is already limited by then.

[Anonymous]

In a word, feminism.