I'm done with my travels and have decided to start my search on serious commitment (and my vetting process) before it's too late. I'm not doing long-term cohabitation either nor accepting being a girlfriend for 5 years. I'm aware of not wasting too much time. Otherwise I'll be screwed. I'm using math and logic at this moment, not emotions. If I get it right, then I'm calculating I'll be 26-27 years old with my 1st child. Then probably 29-30 with my 2nd.
It's usually me doing the discarding if the man doesn't want commitment. However, I've been recently discarded myself by two marriage-minded men just for being an atheist. That alone was enough for them. Both wanted the religious ceremony thing.
I'm ok with marriage without the need to believe in a god nor religion. I would be marrying the man, not some invisible being from my imagination. But honestly do you really have to be religious and believe in a god to believe in marriage?