When I was a kid, I was around this. My aunts cheated on my uncles. I heard stories of my friends walking in on their moms with guys. One kid was even traumatized after walking in on his mom giving a BJ to a black guy.
It’s been around me. I’m American by the way. Even till this day, I am cheated on and still see it around me all the time.
Yes, that can’t be true.
No, that doesn’t surprise me at all.
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Not surprised about these results. I was expecting that.
Does it surprise you that American women ranked number 8 globally for the most unfaithful wives admitted to cheating? Why are they ranked highly?
From my experiences in life and what I witnessed pretty much everyone is a cheater one way or another , whether it’s physical , or emotional it is still cheating , yes my finger points at girls more than guys , but that’s just based off of my own experiences and what I witnessed with girls , So the real question is , on whether they learned from it? And did they realize it was a horrible thing to do to someone. or are they continuing to do it as long as they are getting away with it? , like it’s no big deal. My biggest fear is being in a committed relationship with someone that tells me they Love me to my face but secretly they are cheating on me behind my back and acting like everything is ok , they are basically living a lie that they actually love me. not only are they wasting my time they are wasting their own time being with someone they truly don’t love , if they won’t to bring that secret to the grave with them then go for it living your whole life with that guilt that you are a piece of shit. Cheating is a selfish act period , if you have a partner that is loving and caring to you and considers your feelings and doesn’t deny you intimacy and affection Al the time and treats you with love and respect , you are dumb as fuck to cheat on someone like that , someone that makes you their priority, cuz I got news for you , finding someone that wants to be loved like that , especially these days is hard to come by , and yes cheating is dumb period but so many people still do it cuz everyone has selfishness in them and only thinks what is best for them without considering their partners feelings , that’s why I don’t jump into relationships right away , cuz when the infatuated time dwindles away people tend to have a change in heart and start feeling like they are missing out on things so I make it clear to a girl that I am dating , that if she ends up hooking up with someone else, to please just end it with me , cuz I do not want to commit to a girl that can’t be loyal to me , I have cheated before when I was younger and I felt like the biggest asshole on this planet , realizing I can never truly fall in love with someone if I can’t remove my selfishness for them , the same way I expect them to do for me , I have also been cheated on by girls that I thought were in it for the long haul , to find out she was betraying me , so the only way I will get into a relationship now with a girl is if she proves to me she knows what it means to remove selfishness for each other , without that you have nothing
Nothing surprising about this at all. Hell, even I've always thought it was true. American women are pretty jacked up. They divorce the most, want men of low morals, don't understand real love, and are full of masculine energy.
You don't see men from all over the world trying to marry American women like you see so many men from around the world wanting to marry women from other countries like Russia and Asia.
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Please do keep in mind that statistically, there are inaccuracies. This is based off polls of individuals whom have been cheated on, not a legitimate statistic.
With that said, no, I'm not surprised. The US is ass backwards as it is. It's more common to find a spouse that cheats than it is to find one that is faithful and I'm willing to bet that goes both ways and isn't gender based. I'm willing to bet if a poll was put out asking women if they've ever been cheated on, the numbers would be just as high. I personally don't know a single person who hasn't been cheated on; man or woman.
Also take in to consideration here that in other countries, men are allowed to have more than one wife and it isn't considered cheating but women are not allowed to ever go beyond that husband, despite him sleeping with multiple women. It's more common in other countries for the men to cheat because it is allowed, as women are seen as disposable. If a woman was to cheat in certain countries, they would be killed off publicly or publicly shamed and considered "soiled goods"- deeming them unworthy of any man. This is still happening in other countries even today. There is a lot more fear in other countries that prevent women from "stepping out of their place".
Again, no, I'm not surprised. But there's other variables.
I have not seen the results or a description of how these statistics were collected but I think 71% is a high estimate. This number is apparently the result of self reports and those are notoriously inaccurate. The results could simply mean that American women are more honest that women from other countries! We also don't know how they selected their sample and that can skew results tremendously. I could select a group to poll and get a result of 5% or less, if I wanted to get an inaccurate number.
Just because you found something on the internet and it has a number attached to it doesn't mean it is accurate.
One of the first jobs I had after college was working in an engineering department. Just about every noon, one of the secretaries (married) would meet one of the engineers (also married, but not to each other) and they went to his car in the parking lot and had sex. They told people they were going to lunch but everyone knew exactly what they were doing.
I was naïve then, and this was the first time I saw someone cheating. Since then, I've seen several others cheat, both men and women.
I think there’s a lot of men who can literally handle just being “consistent.” 😂😬
They may call it faithful, but it could be the bare minimum of effort they give, and they may not even “feel” the relationship or want it, but they can still be consistent.
I think the men who have evolved with the work force prove and testify to this- the ones who stayed in jobs they never really liked?
But I don’t wish to discredit.
I NEVER considered faithfulness of men.
I think married ones can be loyal.
I don't know a lot of sneaky ones out there as well…
I honestly can’t say if any man is ever faithful. I just don’t know Tbh.
No good indications or anything. Loyal friends? Ehhh yea. Definitely.
I don't know I’m suspicious of it. I may die with that suspicion.
@Orion76 all due respect sir, he and I aren’t planning to just “join the numbers,” by following the beliefs and mindsets they share..
I personally have broke my back and brain just to break from the crowd, growing up- as priority!
It was only then, I could formulate my own ideas and not be a slave to societal views.
it’s a free thing, and in reference to your claim on my person, I don’t intend to ever reverse this free thing.
I’ll be wary of the young guys and girls who do follow these trends. I’m just frankly not about it.
Thanks for that support and word of positivity, though!
I was being sarcastic, in that last bit, yes, but your view point actually presents itself as motivation to me: to keep on my set path. The one I set for.. 👐🤝
@Rosexoxo it’s refreshing to hear that and from a young lady like yourself, yes you do you and don’t worry about the statistics and hopefully more and more people do the same. Also when I said 5 isn’t enough I was responding to someone else. Wish you the best of luck.
@ManOnFire so @Rosexøxø answer is another example of the equality excuse women always use. Ever notice they never take responsibility for doing something wrong unless they can equate it w/ a man doing something wrong?
@Rosexøxø My apologies but we had this conversation previously and u provided a perfect example to highlight this fact. Excellent question, by engaging w/ u I receive free data that highlights female nature. No I'm not on GAG to date as that would seem pretty strange and no I don't want to get to know you, as women provide very little utility to men. Not sure what personal life issues you're referring to but I can understand that emotion is a natural default.
@Vegasrunner I’m an American. Keep your opinion. I’m an American. I’ll advocate for any person or people who is falsely identified, or who has hate speech spoken towards them. Especially in the moments where is truly counts.
I’m a reasonable human. I’ll acknowledge your apology and overlook this matter entirely.
I’m proud of who I am and I’ll never stop being proud.
Lol! You told on your self there. Either wa, you agree to date, qualify, and more often than not push for commitment from the guy.
If a woman decides to cheat, it's usually not on the spot, but rather a decision made over time. They stay for the benefits, and/or backup option until they find someone who has all the traits that current guy doesn't have. Usually neglecting to see the traits this guy missing though
Very understandable to want someone better when there are so many options but when you have so many examples to compare to, you'll look for someone with best qualities in each, all the while carry more and more emotional baggage that the next guy will trip on
@Rosexøxø Lol, that's not the kind of equality we are referring to. I apologize for bringing you into the conversation, however whenever I find an example that so perfectly fits I have no choice but to apply it. Ty I can't enjoy the data w/out people like you providing it.
@Vegasrunner I don’t know what you refer to and I’m not interested in knowing. You “enjoying data” means you have some level of emotional involvement. That means you’re biased in some way and not a neutral and curious researcher about the information you wish to collect.
You didn’t even get the right data.. you’re following your own self fulfilling prophetical ways with your blinded lens. You view the whole world or so (I don't know where it ends) with this altered view but the toxic thing about it is that you like it.
I’m glad I’m learning to keep my emotions out of this.
You and the other dude aren’t worth it, and I think I was following him!
I don't know I may unfollow because no one is worth following with that level of toxicity
The best thing we can do is distance ourselves from really.. really… sick sick people…
And you two are ill :]
Get better soon okay?
I’ll take the liberty to block
I don’t wish to see any more comments from you two in ANOTHER 13 days…
The obsession is ridiculous.
You both will have to spew your toxicity to each other from now on and your other gargoyles
Basically says what a lot of us have said... somehow has the 4 dislikes/disagrees as always. You have some very devoted trolls. My response, which was also pretty much the same, is reported by someone and hidden. 😂 The reporting stuff has actually really picked up lately.
@D_Bone_Steak if it was hidden then it was an ubermoderator. A Janny. Reported posts aren't affected until admin finished reviewing the report and decides to remove.
@Dіldophobe If I'm getting picked out amongst so many doing the exact same thing... I should probably lay low for a while. I'm getting 7 points taken left and my other left recently in the last couple of days. Like seriously... anything anti-left, against Biden, against trannies, or women being an explicit word...7 points are basically gone.
It's watered down by first generation Americans who still have familial values from their own cultures.
See the US is a nation built by the greedy for the greedy. During the colonial days only the greedy and desperate took the risk of leaving their life in Europe behind and sailed to start anew. They taught their kids to want and want and want.
That's the underlying cause of a lot of things wrong today. It's not one person's fault it's just what the culture teaches and normalizes.
Before 2010 most housewives felt that their husbands got all the breaks to cheat while they were stuck at home with the kids. Late business meetings, seminars, things that got them out of the house at late hours or completely out of town. That all changed when males started being separated from employment and women were offered the chance to climb the corporate ladder. The tables have turned. If the opportunity presents itself the cheat will happen. Difficult to complain when the shoe is on the other foot.
This varies for a couple of different reasons, depending on region. Like here for instance, people use sex to get what they want. Some women's libido runs longer than men's. So if she's feeling neglected she will seek it elsewhere the same is true for men. With conversing with women from Asia, they seem to have double the "appetite" than European women. Well into the early 80's. For some they have been conditioned for this and others are just nemphomaiacs. The men, not so much. They seem to give up before they're 60. Society has made having sex a priority and when you've been conditioned this way if you're not getting it at home, you'll seek it elsewhere. I have been with some who really wasn't interested in sex, some who were nemphomaiacs and some who were cheaters. The moral of this is don't expect it several times a day and the stop after a few years. It's almost guaranteed if you do, they will seek it elsewhere.
As explained by women on this platform in their views, for a lot of American women the only thing that matters to them is their own feelings.
As such there exist no such thing as honor, commitment, logic, or trust in dealing with them.
Frankly they should be treated like the children they act like for their own good. For in chasing endless what feels good they will otherwise wreak their own lives and the lives of anyone who might become depended upon them.
Theses women should certantly not be allowed to ever raise a child apart from a more responsible partner for they will inevitably delinquent and abuse said children when their proper care and discipline fails to feel good to them.
I know some women that have cheated, some guys too but if that study is based on the subjects actually admitting then i got some bad news. those who didn't admit are not necessarily faithful, among them you will find two groups, you have those who get pleasure from deceiving their partners by leading a secret life and those who still have the decency to be ashamed to admit it even anonymously and on a piece of paper. The first won't admit because it defeats the purpose and kills the buzz they get off the secrecy and admitting will undermine their work while the second group uses denial to cope with guilt and embarrassment within. In other words Im pretty damn sure we are in the Top 3 🥳
That makes sense that Greenland has some of the fewest cheaters, though. If you’re in a fishing village and you cheat with the only other female in the village other than your partner, it’s gonna be obvious.
But for America to be number 8, that makes some sense but the study itself is probably not reliable because who is going to admit on a phone survey that they cheat regularly? They also only surveyed 1,000 people in the US out of 400,000,000. That is not nearly enough to use as a reliable sample.
Eh. Not sure what anyone is supposed to do with that statistic. It impacts nothing. Changes nothing. A man or woman is going to cheat or they're not going to cheat. Having statistics on it means nothing.
As for your question does it surprise me or not? Neither. Neutral on this. I don't ascribe some noble thought to America versus elsewhere nor nation bashing based on statistics.
I call garbage. I don't know why people take these posts seriously. And the telltale is. ." One kid was even traumatized after walking in on his mom giving a BJ to a black guy."
Because we all know how "Black" guys break up stable "White" marriage with. . . you know. . their penises. And then she gave him a bj. . . she didn't even get anything out of it!!!
Thus traumatizing her poor "son". . . not daughter. Traumatized the son for life.
Sounds accurate, American women are some of the most entitled women in the world. They think they are better than everyone but at the same time play the victim card. One interesting thing about American women is they are the only women who get chocolate cravings during their period. Look it up, every other country's women never get chocolate cravings, only American women. Also American women are the only ones who fall in the toilet if the seat is left up, every other country women don't have that problem.
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I'm not surprised. I was raised mostly by my father because my mom cheated and my parents divorced when I was 11. My boyfriend is going through a bit of hell right now because his mother apparently had been cheating for like 4 years and got caught late last year, so his family is in an ugly place. I know some of my friends have cheated on their boyfriends (and one on her girlfriend). I feel like people have no commitment anymore. I hate to say it but it seems like women are even worse than men that way. It makes be sad.
If questions on GAG are anything to go by, I am not surprised. So many people, especially guys, marry for the wrong reasons. Guys seem to think their wealth, status, looks and dick size make for a good husband. Women are taken in by thisl. Later, they realise it isn't all its cracked up to be. So they hop into another guy's bed.
Honestly I was like What? US is that bad? that sounds crazy, always seen US as pretty trusted pepole So checked it up
Seems like its really not true? From what I could see US is not even in the top 10 on that list, and it seem to say the precent is around 32%~36% for the US And highest seem to be Tiland with 56%
Eh, this statistic/research can always be BS because there is no way you can tell who cheats more. It is the matter whether you are caught on act or no.
I live in Malaysia (Muslim country) and trust me I know many of my married friends or acquaintances who cheat but not getting caught.
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It's too easy now. Way easier.
First, you got the supply of men vastly overwhelming the demand of women rather than the other way around. Women can get sex by just asking (sometimes even without asking). Men can get sex by paying.
Secondly, social media and online dating made it easy to find and meet whoever. This means finding someone to cheat with (as a woman and without having to pay) is almost as simple as ordering groceries online.
Thirdly, while it's a good thing, that women can stand on their own by making their own money, it does leave the impression of men being replaceable or optional rather than being literally required for survival and the source of money like in the 1950s.
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