I've explained to people that I'm not ready for a relationship - I'm in college 3/4 of the time ad do homeschool my kids. Why is it people have a hard time understanding that? I explained to one person we can be friends and hang out , but I wasn't ready for anything serious until I was done with my studies this summer.. I explained this shyt numerous of times , but she doesn't get it.
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Though only you can determine when you're ready for something, others often freely share their opinion of what you should or shouldn't do. I'll never understand people giving disrespect yet feeling entitled to receive respect. There is nothing wrong with viewing a relationship as something you want to invest in, and your present situation limits the time you have to invest. Just because others feel it's fine to accept superficiality rather than depth, that doesn't mean superficiality works for all. Be true to yourself, and tune out the garbage people shovel your way. Unfortunately, you'll never run out of people who feel entitled to shovel garbage.
I'm not ready for a relationship due to my obligations with school once I'm done with school - I will be meeting someone offline in person.
I refuse to deal with online dating as I had so many problems online dating in the past plus a lot of people don't want to be upfront when meeting - send video recordings audio recordings phone conversations.. met one person who refused to do this and actually talk on the phone
There's nothing wrong with holding firm with what works for you. If others feel entitled to criticize you, let it go in one ear and out the other. You don't need to defend what makes sense to you. This site is filled with people who love to push other people's buttons, so be careful what you post here, so you don't invite criticism.
Idc 😏 these people can go to hell
People seem to think that functioning without a mate is impossible that we should all be in a relationship. That one can never been not ready for a relationship when in fact you can be not ready for a relationship. I would argue that teenagers aren't and early twenty something year olds aren't considering how many relationships end badly. People should honestly take time for themselves to either get their goals they want to achieve taken care of or just take time to understand themselves first before getting in a relationship with someone else. Then again I'm probably speaking out of my ass I never been in a relationship due to both not feeling ready while also genuinely having bad luck with the dating scene now a days.
I wish you the best aswell yes it's so toxic out here and dating is garbage 🗑..
Then stop talking to her