Why do we change a lot after major life events?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’ve noticed life events change us or our personalities and we sometimes do things we would never imagine in another reality.

For example, when I was in a relationship I was a bit of a homebody, reading books, writing (this I always enjoyed) and the relationship kind of made me very reserved to the outside world, I wouldn’t imagine I’d be partying this way after break up.

I’ve almost become the total opposite of myself.

My main principles are still with me, but that’s still a 180 degree change.

[sheenagwapa]

i am fine with me bot into so much about other people's validation. sone people they're life is so much about other people's validation. i like human connection though. but right now i learned not to trust more. i think that's the major change with me


to be extremely careful of user people because these users will even destroy your life, your relationship eith your family, your relatives, your friends


these people are monsters and they do all these because they wanna use yoy


imagine there's this monster who monitored me illegally and now monitoring even my sisters. monster to the core

[melanieeeB]

We change throughout life, we grow up, tastes change, friends change, life changes... it's all good. Just make sure to reflect and learn from experiences and keep growing and glowing

[EaterPeter]

That's the time to take a step or two back. Take inventory, meditate, put though in to. Oh my what just happened? Could that has been avoided? Was it my fault. How far behind this is going to put me in life. Major life events puts us about 7 years behind in the life. Anyhow we should not let it discourage us or going will get tough. Be the tough one and keep it going. There may be soft times. Learn to enjoy be down have rituals for good or bad times. That is how you make time fly or use red bull wings 😉

[EaterPeter]

Thought *

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

We should be adhering to common sense and mathematics when dealing with money in stock market. But we do not. Because the way we act in the future is inspired from our experiences in our past. Nearly 80% of our thoughts are inspired.

That is why we change, even if by a bit, after every major event.

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you staying so busy that you don't have time to reflect upon your situation and your feelings?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I had 5 months, but I tried to stay really busy in those 5 months because I felt like dying and my health was deteriorating pretty bad, when I was left alone thinking about what happened.

[OlderAndWiser]

t sounds lke you need to mak sure you spend most of your time in the company of others. That is what real friends are for.

[Anonymous]

I know exactly. We are conditioned beings. Anything that causes an emotional impact can alter that conditioning. Repetition also alters the conditioning. All you did was alter your conditioning. a lot of emotion can inspire us to do things we wouldn't usually do; it's called inspired action. It is driven by emotion and not conditioning.

[FilmGuy93]

When we experience a different way of living life, our brains try to take inventory of things to figure out if there is anything useful in the new experiences

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

But I’ve never been a party animal, even now, I do have fun all the time but I think I’d much rather just stay at home have I had a loved one who’d I cuddle and watch movies with.

[FilmGuy93]

Okay. So you’re a human being that has contradictions sometimes. Live the life you want to live. I’ve answered your question to the best of my ability

[Hassan_8]

I don’t think one event can change you or your vision about life, it takes hundreds of small incidents to change you little by little till you become a different person

[Grond21]

It's one of the ways we handle pain. It can be a form of escapism, doing something radically different. Not living as you did before because that person experienced so much pain that you decide to reinvent yourself.

[jshm2]

That's what makes it "major," dumbass.

[exitseven]

Humans like most living things must adapt or die,

[Likes2drive]

There are some life-changing events that can really change a person for better or worse

[dolemite89]

i wouldn’t call a break up in your 20s a “major life event” and what does “partying” mean? a hoe phase with bar hopping sprinkled in? 🤣

[Alex8736]

in times of high stress the inner fight or flight sets in bringing out all hidden talents

[Anonymous]

Darling you just enjoying your freedom ❤️
Not every breakup break u some break up make you. ❤️

I'm happy for you.

[Jennz6]

I’m not really sure honey

[Iron_Man]

That happened even by seeing a movie

[OddBeMe]

We change a lot after minor ones too.