Why my girlfriend sleeps without any problem after unsolved arguments?

[Anonymous]

We’re long distance temporarily. We had an argument last night through phone and ended up cutting the call. I cannot sleep without saying good night and kisses.

After cutting the call I waited for half an hour and texted her good night and kisses. But her internet was off and I think slept right away after unsolved argument !!

This has happened 5,6 times before. What do you think?

[Guy13]

I am sure she still cares so I would not interpret it as a negative reaction. In fact, I wish I could do that. I am afraid I am more like you, however, I am trying to turn my mind off at 9pm every night. It is like thinking and then taking control of thought and stopping the process. It helps when it is thoughts outside of work.

[Asker]

Thanks buddy. So should we just sleep whenever we’re sleepy, regardless of out partners mood?

[Guy13]

I really don't know and the ideal world of not going to be angry has never one that I have known. It keeps me awake knowing she is not right emotionally BUT I have to cut that of or I'll never sleep...