My boyfriend and his mother have been on bad terms for a while. She moved countries and things blew up just before that. They have not really spoken since, he has ignored majority of her messages.
After she left the country a message popped up on my Facebook messenger. She had added me and my boyfriend into a group chat to wish me luck for my surgery (which she was told about from my boyfriends sister). I found this quite weird and it felt very insincere. I can't stop thinking about how much it bothers me that she used me to seemingly try get to my boyfriend. Why wouldn't she just message me directly? She didn't address or acknowledge my boyfriend at all. It's like she just wanted him to see it.
What do you think?
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Ultimately, you will lose going up against Mom. The best thing you can do is try to integrate her and heal the Family. Be that person and your boyfriend will love you in a way that is not expressible.
One more thing, if he will be against his Mom, you are nothing to him. No man can maintain long relationship with woman IF he can not keep it together with his own Mom.
His mother is the issue in the relationship. She doesn't take accountability for the shitty things she does. He's just had enough of acting like it's ok