My boyfriend proposed but I don’t wanna marry him? (Page 2)

Question

My boyfriend of 2 years proposed to me but I never gave him a straight answer. He’s adamant and wants us to get married. He’s very sweet to me. He’s a good guy and treats me well. But when I first started dating him he told me that he has a daughter. I knew deep down I don’t want to be with someone who has a kid from a prior relationship. I continued to date him , though. I was thinking I could just have some fun by going out with him a few times and I won’t let it get too serious. I still stand by what I want and what I want is to start my own family. I want it to be both of our first child. He’s already had that experience without me and I feel like it’s something I just can’t compromise on. I always knew from day one that I’d never marry him. But time has gone by fast and now he thinks that we’re gonna be together forever. How do get out of this situation without seeming like the bad guy?

Blueeyes81 · Answer

You can't. Whether you want admit it or not you led this guy on. Suck it up, put on your big hitl panties and face the music that yiu ignored 2 years ago. Confess.

Anonymous · Answer

Shoulda left him. Why lead him on.🤦🏻‍♀️ You leading him on, MAKES YOU THE BAD GUY 🙄🙄

sheenagwapa · Answer

tell him yoy don't wanna marry him... expect your karma dear

jshm2 · Answer

Then you're an imbecile for leading him on and should be ashamed of yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

You’re already the bad person. The least you can do is tell him every single truth and then of course break up with him so he can finally find someone better.

Anonymous · Answer

Just break up with him. If the shoe was on the other foot you’d hate it if a man strung you along. Don’t be one of those girls. 🥺

John_Doesnt · Answer

You made the mistake of not being upfront with him, but you can still be polite and let him know your intentions.

Anonymous · Answer

You need to do what's right for you. But you do need to stop stringing him along if you know you're not going to marry him and you know he wants to marry you. All you can do is be honest with him.

Pohjolan · Answer

You have been a very naughty girl leading him on like that. Just break up before you find a higher value mate and also start cheating on him.

JesseP1nk · Answer

But you are a bad guy... Why are you with someone you dont love , dont wanna marry with and build life together - why are you wasting your own and his time? 🤦

strlb · Answer

Tell him. You are not forced to do something against your will, tell him that you do not want to get married etc.. if he doesn't respect your wishes, leave him. Best of luck. DM always open

humanearth · Answer

Your not, no matter how you break it to him. Your going to break his heart

yucel_eden · Answer

I would say break up and cut your losses but your going to have this on your mind for a while

Jay3344 · Answer

Be open and honest with him. Why drag it on if he wants marriage and you want a family but not with him?

AydenHazor · Answer

Just let him know that you don't see yourself marrying him and end the relationship. The more you drag it out the more you'll hurt him

Noodle_fan · Answer

just be honest to him about it , break up with him , then move on he will be fine , everyone experience heartbreak , it is part of life

genericname85 · Answer

well then be a person of your word and tell him. stop wasting both of y'all's time.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds to me like you need to leave, and stop lying to him about how you feel. Let him move on to someone who is actually worthy of him unlike you.. Smh wow.

SolSolBunBun · Answer

I Would Say Tell Him Nicely. But Why Do You Want. A Child? The Human Race Is Already Overpopulated. It’s Not Like Our Species Is Gonna Be Endangered.

Twalli · Answer

You dug yourself into this hole knowing it wouldn't last, you are the bad guy bu giving him hope.

In_Trance · Answer

So on day one, you recognized red flags, but you continued to date him for 2 Years? WTF

Pterodon · Answer

Did you ever tell him your feelings from the very start?

Pete671 · Answer

Please do the decent thing and break up with him,,,

noohair · Answer

I believe that your dishonesty with him is shameful.

Dreamclouds · Answer

Never be ashamed of what you think and feel, probably you should be honest about it also end the relationship, that is fair.

007kingifrit · Answer

there is no getting out of this, you're a terrible person lol

Myrod22 · Answer

You don’t. You should have never got involved or stayed with him. You lead him on.

TrillXHippy · Answer

“He’s a good guy and treats you well” is all that I needed to see

TallAnon · Answer

If you don't want to spend your life with him, don't string him along; Break up

Anonymous · Answer

I think you will regret that you didn't marry him if you don't marry him. That's what happened to me. After I rejected, things gone bad.. I mean everything happens for a reason and you won't have the same opportunity in the future. Marry him.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

AS YOU KNOW FROM VERY BEGINNING, THAT HE HAS DAUGHTER, WHY YOU WASTED HIS TIME, NOW YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO MARRY

Anonymous · Answer

Yea you need to end it sweetheart every day you don’t you’re giving him more and more hope

Anonymous · Answer

Say "no." Gee that was pretty easy, huh?

riverrat3 · Answer

You should have broken it off when you found out about daughter, just tell him no and leave

spartan55 · Answer

Wow, you are a seriously shitty person.

Pyrofox · Answer

So your just wasting his time.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Why did you string him along for years?

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Just say, "No.".

Fuentes · Answer

Then tell him no and break up

peedy · Answer

You're going to break his heart

TheFlak38 · Answer

Whore alert

Anonymous · Answer

Is that an actual pic of you and him

Anonymous · Answer

No need to marry a man. Preferably marry a woman.

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