I know everyone grieves differently , and everyone goes through their own emotions when losing a loved one , I lost a lot of loved ones throughout my life and one thing I know for sure I don’t do when I am grieving , is push someone away that loves me like a girlfriend or a S/O I understand some people push away loved ones which to me is
Kind of fucked up , but again everyone grieves differently and grieving is fucked up , So How would you feel , if your partner lost someone that they really weren’t that close to but you still wanted to be there For them as much as possible and be their rock and they were happy you were standing by their side but All of a sudden last minute , they ask you not to go with them to the funeral , that they wanted to go by themselves , You were taken back some but you understood , and were ok with it , So Your partner goes to the funeral without you and you find out through the grapevine that their ex was at the funeral? How would that make you feel and how would you honestly handle that? When all of a sudden they wanted you there with them but last minute they didn’t want you coming? To find out their ex was at the funeral instead? Would you dump them or would stay with them?
Kind of fucked up , but again everyone grieves differently and grieving is fucked up , So How would you feel , if your partner lost someone that they really weren’t that close to but you still wanted to be there For them as much as possible and be their rock and they were happy you were standing by their side but All of a sudden last minute , they ask you not to go with them to the funeral , that they wanted to go by themselves , You were taken back some but you understood , and were ok with it , So Your partner goes to the funeral without you and you find out through the grapevine that their ex was at the funeral? How would that make you feel and how would you honestly handle that? When all of a sudden they wanted you there with them but last minute they didn’t want you coming? To find out their ex was at the funeral instead? Would you dump them or would stay with them?
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I’d just say , hey babe you could have just told me if you needed alone time with your ex in that situation 🤷♀️
She claimed it had nothing to do with her ex , so I said well why didn’t you want me there then? Her reaction was in a angry way it has nothing to do with you? I said apparently it did , I said I would never push you away if someone I l loved past away? I said how would you feel if I told you not to come to find out my ex was
There instead? To me
The whole thing was shady , even though I didn’t think she screwed her ex at the funeral I just took it as her being disrespectful and selfish but it still left a question mark on my head as to why all of a sudden she didn’t want me coming with her? I was hurt by it and stood my ground to her , she acted Ike I was being an asshole and i said Ha look in the mirror before calling me an asshole , Was I wrong for responding like i did to her?
Maybe she had lived the person who passed in a deeper way than you were aware of and didn’t want you to become aware of that
Possibly but the fact that her ex was there and she didn’t tell me about that made me Lose respect for her