Quote said: If there’s even a slight chance at getting something that will make you happy, risk it. Life’s too short & happiness is too rare.
We’d been talking friendly after we broke up on good terms. I don’t think either of us really wanted to break up, but we’d come to the realisation that we wanted different things and it was becoming wrong to stay together. I wished we hadn’t taken it so far, he said he’s glad for it all.
His response to that quote I posted was that he was glad he’d met me and my family & wished us all the best. I’m just not really sure why he felt the need to say that, other than to reinforce that’s were over…(which I already knew).
Any thoughts?
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It's difficult to say for certain whether or not your ex thought the quote was about him. However, it's possible that he may have interpreted it that way, especially if he knows that you were unhappy in the relationship and were seeking greater happiness and fulfillment.
His response to your post could be interpreted in a few different ways. On one hand, he may have been genuinely expressing his appreciation for you and your family, and wishing you all the best in your future endeavors. On the other hand, he may have been trying to reinforce the fact that the relationship is over, and that he has moved on.
It's up to you to interpret his words and actions based on your own knowledge and understanding of the situation. If you are still unsure about his intentions or feelings, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with him about your thoughts and feelings, and to seek clarity and closure if needed.
My feeling is both. I’m interested in what others may think is most likely though (obviously taken in context).
Given the context you provided, it's possible that your ex interpreted the quote as a reflection of your feelings about the breakup and the possibility of seeking happiness outside of the relationship. However, it's also possible that his response was a sincere expression of gratitude and well wishes, and not necessarily an attempt to reinforce that the relationship was over.
It's important to keep in mind that everyone's interpretations and reactions can be influenced by a variety of factors, and it's not always easy to understand or predict someone else's behavior. Ultimately, the best way to understand your ex's thoughts and feelings would be to communicate openly and honestly with him, and to try to establish clear boundaries and expectations moving forward.
Remember to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to make decisions that are right for you, regardless of what others may think or say. Trust yourself and your instincts, and don't be afraid to seek support from friends, family, or a therapist if you need help navigating difficult emotions or situations in your relationships.
That’s why I said “in context”.
It’s interesting you say that though as I hadn’t seen it from that angle.
If it were well wishes would it be because he’s content that the relationship is over, or regret of sorts?
Okay I see your point of view. It’s hard to say for sure without knowing more about your ex's thoughts and feelings. However, his response could be interpreted in a few different ways.
One possibility is that he is genuinely wishing you and your family well and expressing gratitude for the time you spent together, without any lingering feelings of regret or sadness. Another possibility is that he may be expressing regret or sadness about the breakup, but also acknowledging that he understands the decision and respects it.
The best way to get clarity on his thoughts and feelings would be to have an open and honest conversation with him. However, if you don't feel comfortable having that conversation or if it's not possible for other reasons, it may be best to try to focus on moving forward and finding happiness in your own life.