So I've been under the weather and nauseous for a while and I told my boyfriend and we took a pregnancy test and it's just bad timing. He's on his second year in his business venture and it could have not been a worse time. I can't keep it if it's there cause I'm in my 2nd year of uni and my mom would literally kill me. So I asked how he's feel about me terminating it. He said he's okay with it cause it's up to me and we can't handle a kid rn especially with my mom and he doesn't want me to be pregnant rn. Does this mean he possibly wants kids with me in the future. We've told each other that we love each other. But we've only been together for a little more than a year and I'm terrified that he's not that into me and I'm the one too into this.
It's difficult to say for sure what your boyfriend's feelings and intentions are based on this one conversation, but it's important to communicate openly and honestly with each other about your feelings and expectations in the relationship.
It's possible that your boyfriend does see a future with you and wants to have children together at some point, but is aware that now is not the right time given his business venture and your current situation with school and family. Alternatively, he may simply be supportive of your decision and not want to pressure you one way or the other.
It's important to have a conversation with your boyfriend about your concerns and expectations for the future, including whether or not you both want children and when might be the right time for that. This can help clarify your feelings and intentions and ensure that you both are on the same page.
Remember that every relationship is unique and that it's important to communicate openly and honestly with each other about your feelings and expectations. If you're feeling uncertain or anxious about the relationship, it may be helpful to talk to a trusted friend or a therapist to process your feelings and gain perspective on the situation.
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