Am I reading too much into it?

[Anonymous]

So my roommate. I moved in about 3 weeks ago. He’s extremely attractive, funny, smart. I have a little crush. I definitely need to get to know him more. We talk a lot and he asks me for advice on certain things. We talk about what we think a relationship should look like etc.. He always asks me for help if anything goes wrong in the apartment and we have other roommates so why not ask them? They’ve been here longer.. I guess I’m just bad at reading guys. I think he flirts? We watch shows together and only us, no one else seems to join in. But again I may be reading too much into it. One thing I do notice is he makes eye contact all the time. Is that a thing guys do when they’re interested? Do I just keep going like nothings there or do I say something..

He might be attracted to you

Reading too much into it

[SueShe]

A landlord, therefore a person that can afford to have his own place is your roommate?

That is so fishy that I can smell the odor thousands of miles away. You are not seriously thinking that this is all pure coincidence, are you?

He is obviously interested in getting into your pants as quickly as he only can and that is why he is acting the way he does. You are indeed reading too much into it. It is so obvious that he only intends to keep you warm until he gets what he wanted. Once he got you where he wants you, you will need to vacate the place to make space for the next victim.

Girl, wake up and realize that this is only a scheme.

[Asker]

There are three other female roommates as well. So how would it be a scheme for just me? But I’ll take your advice into consideration. I signed a lease I can’t just be kicked out.

[SueShe]

I just find it bizarre that he has no male roommates and only female ones. Just be careful, that's all.

[Pewee911]

I think he's into you.

Do you see other signs apart from the eye contact?

Like...
Does he find ways to touch you, like shoulder punch, high five?
Does he act differently towards you when others are around?
Does he find ways to be near you?
Are his feet pointing towards you when you guys are whatching TV shows?
Does he sit next to you when watching TV, though there are other chairs available?

[Asker]

High five yes absolutely. Different I mean I guess he’s not as talkative to me when others are around depending. His feet tend to point towards me sometimes but not all the time. And usually he’ll ask me to join him and I sit on the opposite couch. Because I don’t want him to know I’m interested 😅

[Pewee911]

Yup he definitely into you.

Do this test.
Next time when you sitting next to him in the couch accidentally let your hands slip onto his hands or thigh. Does he let it sit there or does he adjust and move. If he lets your arms sit there he definitely into you.

[Iron_Man]

That’s bad for business why in the heck would you move in with a guy that you find attractive never mix business with pleasure the next thing you know He will be paying your whole rent for you the poor fella I know how it works

[Asker]

One because it was the cheapest place to rent and closest to work and I didn’t think I’d get to actually know him! Or even remotely talk to him this much. Second I pay my own rent regardless of being with a man or not.

[Asker]

He’s not just the roommate. He’s the landlord! 🤦‍♀️

[Iron_Man]

Good luck

[Iron_Man]

I’ve never heard in my life living with the landlord

[Xtendable]

He could very well be attracted to you. How comfortable are you with him?

[Wise4myage]

I think he's into you.

[Fuentes]

You want free rent or something?

[In_Trance]

Yes you are