About two months ago I was talking to this guy that I met on hinge. We’d been talking about 3 weeks when he shared that his past relationship was with a guy. I was honest and told him it wasn’t something I was comfortable with and we should be friends. He was obviously upset by this and decided he didn’t want to be fiends and deleted me. Two weeks later he adds me back again, apologising for the way he handled things at the time and asks to be friends. We’d a good conversation and I agreed that we could be friends. These last couple of days I find he’s sending flirty texts and every time I shut it down because I don’t want to give him the wrong idea. Tonight he’s asked me “How do I feel about him now “ and I’m starting to think is he holding onto hope that I’m going to change my mind. I answered his question honestly and told him I haven’t changed my mind on him and his response was “okay, night” . Am I reading too much into it or is he thinking that he’s got a change with me 🙈 if that’s the case I feel like I might have to end the friendship because I can’t keep going back and forth or feeling bad for expressing my feelings because it’s not what he wants to hear. I need advice ….
It sounds like he is holding on hoping for you to give him a chance but like you I would do the same and look at him different because he was with a guy and it could happen again in the future. So best to back away or keep being honest and if he wants to stay in the picture than at least you weren't leading him on
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