Do you notice that when you are happy the world is kinder to you?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I was so depressed during the last period of my life because a lot of sad things happened to my life.

I thought I lost what I so loved in myself and what people loved in me. I looked so sad, I started wearing pink glasses so people wouldn’t see how sad my eyes were. I thought I wasn’t pretty anymore.

Now, though, I overcame that period. I am sitting at a restaurant where I have lots of memories and I don’t think of the past. Yeah, all was good, but now instead of thinking what wonderful things happened here, I think what amazing things WILL happen again in future.

Today I took off my pink glasses and everyone’s smiling and staring as I am walking. I am so happy, I realize i didn’t change. I am still me, I am still the same I used to be before, it’s just I was hiding from the world, now that I am not hiding, everyone’s telling me how pretty I look, people take me pictures on streets, they stop me to say I am beautiful and just I feel much more positiveness than before. I feel alive again! All I had to do was take off my glasses, literally and symbolically - because I am no longer hiding from anyone, I am happy as I am and don’t need anyone or anything more for happiness.

Is that, all you have to do is just be happy and the world will throw even more happiness to you?

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Hahaha, again! After I posted this question, as I was sitting and eating apple, this handsome guy smiled, waved his hand, came and asked for my number. I don’t know what I do differently. Today everyone is smiling, I guess because I am smiling.

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One more 🤣

[spartan55]

Could you please be sure to post daily to share: how many guy ask you on a date, how many guys ask for your number, how many guys stop you and tell you how beautiful you are?

Thanks

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Well, if I posted about that then you would definitely know that 2 in 20 minutes is nothing special, there has been times when 9-10 asked my number the same evening.

If you haven’t guessed so far, I don’t really post anything to see what other people think :P

I use GaG like a diary, sharing my feelings. When I feel like it, I’ll post. When I don’t - I won’t. For me it’s about sharing when I feel like sharing, not so much about hearing the feedback. I don’t mind that either tho.

You just happen to have a peek in my diary. That’s all :P

So, don’t worry about what I post or not. Because I definitely don’t.

[spartan55]

You completely missed my point. Nonetheless, I wasn't worried about what you are posting.

[Degenerate]

No idea, I don't remember what it's like to be happy

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Try this, go out and force yourself to just enjoy the moment, smile and live there in the moment, enjoy the wind, enjoy the spring. I am sure you’ll feel a bit happier and people will notice!

[Degenerate]

ok lol let's go on a date then

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Tomorrow, same place, same time

[Degenerate]

See you there

[Agape93]

Nope. I notice when things start getting better, I tend to get kicked in the teeth

[DownInTheDumps]

Nope whenever I even begin to find happiness, I get knocked down everytime

[gag37627]

That's how it is, actually. Yesterday I noticed a different thing tho, I was happy walking around this place and these two women who worked there tired to flirt with me

[DownInTheDumps]

@gag37627 I've had days where I have walked away being happy and nice and even checked on a lady who almost trip over the gutter and by the end of the day my happiness was taken from me. So no matter what I do life doesn't care for me

[gag37627]

I have the same feeling about life. But I experienced that yesterday. I guess people like to be around happy people. We should pretend to be happy even if we are not

[Alex8736]

goes to show that tough times don't last and only the tough do

[PointTaken]

When you're happy, people notice.