I’m the one creating 90% fights in my relationship because of neediness and insecurities.
I’m too much needy. Also feel insecure when she go out alone or with male friends (because most men would look for a chance to flirt)
How to deal with this guys?
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I’m too much needy. Also feel insecure when she go out alone or with male friends (because most men would look for a chance to flirt)
How to deal with this guys?
Need matured, practical advice from 25+ aged people.
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Dealing with insecurities and neediness in a relationship is a common challenge, and it's important to recognize that it's a process that takes time and effort. Here are a few suggestions that may be helpful:
1. Work on building your self-esteem: Insecurities and neediness often stem from a lack of self-confidence and self-worth. Try to focus on your strengths and positive qualities, and work on developing a strong sense of self.
2. Communicate openly and honestly with your partner: It's important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your feelings and concerns. Let them know how you're feeling and what you need from the relationship.
3. Practice self-care: Taking care of yourself, both physically and emotionally, can help to reduce feelings of neediness and insecurity. This may include things like exercising, eating well, getting enough sleep, and seeking support from friends or a therapist.
4. Challenge your negative thoughts: When you find yourself feeling insecure or needy, try to challenge your negative thoughts and replace them with more positive and realistic ones. For example, instead of assuming that all men are looking to flirt with your partner, try to focus on the trust and connection you have with your partner.
5. Give your partner space and trust: It's important to trust your partner and give them the space they need to be themselves. This may mean allowing them to spend time with friends or pursue their own interests without feeling threatened or insecure.
Remember that building a healthy and fulfilling relationship takes time and effort, and it's important to be patient and compassionate with yourself as you work through these challenges.
Wow this is wonderful opinion man. Thanks a lot. Yeah it really need time and practice to do these. I’ll try. Thank you for your effort in writing detailed opinion !
You're welcome! Remember that change doesn't happen overnight, and that it's important to be patient and kind to yourself as you work on these issues. With time and practice, you can build a healthier and more fulfilling relationship for yourself and your partner. Good luck!
Your girlfriend goes out with male friends? I don't blame you for being worried. At the end of the day I suppose you should tell yourself that if she cheats on you, she was never the woman for you anyway. Be confident enough in your own worth to believe that you can find someone else if this relationship doesn't work out.
Actually she’s loyal and I mean with both male-female friends. I know that she won’t cheat. But my narrow minded over thinking creates ego
Okay. Well, don't blame yourself. Maybe just consciously practice accepting the risk and the anxiety, and do something enjoyable for yourself while she is out. But also recognize that although some people are overly jealous, jealousy evolved for a reason.
Yes bud. Thank you so much
Good luck
Learn to trust her why are u even with her if u have silly fear that someone flirting with her will someone make her leave also for the neediness u need to find things to occupy yourself and stop living life for her before she leaves u mate
Yes. Thanks a lot bud. We are long distance for an year now. We have planned to marry after an year. Now We talk every night for around 30-45 minutes. She spend rest of the time with her friends. If I expect more time from her, Do you think that would be over expectation?
Not at being long distance no but it all comes down to what u both want
Yeah yes. Thank you
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