Is normal to feel a lack of desire for relationship?

[Anonymous]

I have always been okay being on my own. I am not a person who would go to a party or somewher and wish to meet someone special. But lately i noticed this. I have many older friends who are single they are in late 20s. They are okay being single. They enjoy single life, do whatever they want and no drama. Then i noticed that my friends who are in relationship often argue and then they are sitting and look really sad. I would say it is more peacuful to be single. Few months ago I was turned down by a girl I was seeing for some time. So relationships are big no for me. When i am just single things are fine and iam doing my own stuff. Dating and relationships mean so much stress, drama and pain for me.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's completely normal to feel a lack of desire for a relationship. Everyone has their own preferences and priorities when it comes to romantic relationships, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.

Being single can have many benefits, such as the freedom to pursue your own interests and hobbies, more time to focus on personal growth and self-improvement, and avoiding the potential stress and drama that can come with relationships.

It's important to remember that there is no right or wrong way to approach relationships, and it's okay to prioritize your own happiness and well-being above societal expectations or pressure from others.

If you do decide to pursue a relationship in the future, it's important to do so on your own terms and with clear boundaries and expectations. Remember to prioritize your own well-being and to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your wants and needs.

[warsevf]

Just sharing my perspective. I have been single my whole life, so is grass greener on other side? i don't know.

But i do know the depression due to it and seeking therapy because of it.

I am a dumbass, i thought i will do things sequentially and result is procrastination in education and career, because its so peaceful and easy to do, So i got real lazy.

Being single doesn't mean to have zero social life.. this point i missed.

I might suggest, either way is fine, but don't get inspired by others. You really don't know their deal. If you feel something do it.

[arodriguez664]

I'm sorry things haven't really worked out for you. Personally I enjoy being in a relationship, but I recognize that not everyone likes it. I've read that it is becoming increasingly common for single people to want to stay single. So I wouldn't say there is anything wrong with wanting to stay single. Out of curiosity, why did the girl reject you?

[sassymoon]

It hits everyone not just you but start going on trips, both work and hangout with friends again your too adapted add some distance as it makes the heart grow fonder

[jujus]

Always think that I will be alone forever and always accepted it but every time someone comes in my life and draws me in I don’t want to be alone anymore

[Anonymous]

It starts out normal but becomes a sickness. We are NOT meant to be alone forever.

[asphaltrhymes]

I'm sure I'll get lazier once I'm 32

[asphaltrhymes]

If I'm not with a woman betwwen now and 32 plus, I'd rather enjoy single bliss long into my future 😊

[Iron_Man]

Only if you’ve been hurt bad

[shades777]

nope