After so many broken or negative relationships, I feel like I am not attracted to guys anymore. But this has nothing to do with gender. I am not interested in the concept of relationship in general. Is this normal?
It's perfectly normal to shy away after experiencing pain and disappointment. Unfortunately, most people are too self-focused to be healthy partners. They focus on their own sense of entitlement rather than consideration for how their choices impact others. Who wants to invite more pain?
That doesn't mean all people are self-focused and healthy quality partners don't exist. They're just hard to find. Don't completely shut off all opportunities. Just keep your eyes wide open... seeing what exists rather than what you want to exist. Settling, just to be in a relationship will only frustrate and disappoint you. Limit your relationships to what actually exists in the relationship. You may find you'll have some to share interests with, others to share thoughts/feelings with, and others to share intimacy with. You may find it hard to find one person who has it all, so allow yourself to get different needs met in different places.
I don´t know if it´s normal I can understand it though. I would say you´re description already gave the answer. Because you had many negative relationships in the past that created the feeling in you that guys can´t be trusted.
Since a relationships are built on trust you´re so turned off by the idea.
Believe me those that hurt will pay one day. I hope they get hurt the same way they hurt you. I wish my exs nothing but the worst especially my exhusband and my ex in high-school Jestin. and this one looser too name Kuan longoria the stupid idiot never even speak to me just gazed at me and glarer at me only eye contact i was neverin a relationship with him but e knew i had a huge crush on him but he will pay maybe henis alredy paid because heis now a sadly old 31 year old who will die alone.
I am also in the same situation, now I am tired of relationships. There have been many deceptions in the past. Even if i liked someone by mistake, he is involved with someone else and later I come to know about it. I feel tired now. Relationships are now burdening me instead of comforting me.
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Well after bad experience, ghosting and ignore by girls... I have admitted to be single and die single. That doesn't mean I lost interest in girls. Just feeling hopeless myself
Well you've been used up and are out of ingredients to make spice for sexual life. I get it. I hope it's not normal as that is even more boring than sexless.
You're bitter.
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