Shall I tell him how I feel like he’s lacking effort or do I just leave it?

[Anonymous]

Since I’d say Saturday my boyfriends been distant he just will answer the phone then say he’ll call me back and he won’t call me back? I don’t understand? Do I tell him how I feel or do I just not call him to ask? Like everyday he’s said I’ll call u back it’s like he’s occupied with something and he dosent call me back? I’m so emotional and I don’t know if to ask or does it just come across as needy? Like today it’s been an hour and he hasn’t called me back?

[ohsheeT]

I mean if it bothers you you need to tell him how you feel but do it in a respectful way and just let him know I mean you're asking this question and we don't know the rest of his life you know he could have went out of town to work you could have broke his phone I mean it could be a number of things so you have to where are your options pick the best one but I mean it is a big deal to you and I understand that but say it in the right manner to where an argument doesn't start tell him how it makes you feel when he doesn't return your calls or when it takes them so long to do so but also tell him how you feel when he does call you right back what it makes you feel but he makes you feel don't jump into the negative about it and how it makes you feel when he doesn't be positive

[In_Trance]

Focus on your own efforts

[brandon1122]

It's always better to be honest in a relationship