I don't mean it as in if your crushing or seeing that person's partner as in a romantic way. I will share my example. I used to be in a loveless marriage. I didn't realized my marriage was loveless until I was visiting a good friend of mine in Utah when I saw my friend had an accident and her spouse went his way to hug her and ask her if she was okay. Something my ex husband had never done. They were always together and loved each other. I mean this couple look like as if they been marriade for decades. I guess some of us just are meant to be alone. Im not sure.