Have you ever felt envy for someone else relationship?

[Alwayreckles93]

I don't mean it as in if your crushing or seeing that person's partner as in a romantic way. I will share my example. I used to be in a loveless marriage. I didn't realized my marriage was loveless until I was visiting a good friend of mine in Utah when I saw my friend had an accident and her spouse went his way to hug her and ask her if she was okay. Something my ex husband had never done. They were always together and loved each other. I mean this couple look like as if they been marriade for decades. I guess some of us just are meant to be alone. Im not sure.

[dynamicyandere]

I haven’t been envious of someone else’s relationship.


But, on several occasions I’ve heard people, acquaintances, and friends say they hope to have a relationship like mine.


“You’re my favorite couple.” Or “Relationship goals.” Or even, “Are you looking for a third?”


I believe the key to having a relationship that other people aspire to have is making sure that both you and your partner prioritize the relationship and care for it like you would a garden that you cherish.


Where both of you are willing to put 100% effort into the relationship, like growing and tending and protecting the most beautiful garden together.


You give your garden the time and attention it needs to thrive. You always makes sure the plants in your garden are getting enough water and sunlight and nutrients. You get rid of weeds and treat diseases at the very first signs of symptoms (e. g. addressing problems and issues and resolving them before they become worse problems). You and your partner are committed to creating the most beautiful garden you can together, and it’s a genuine lifelong aspiration of yours.


A shared value, goal, and dream.


The most beautiful relationships are not stumbled upon. They are created, nurtured, and protected, by two people who value and appreciate closeness in a relationship, and who never take that bond for granted.

[Billlewis]

I always feel so jealous of guys who have a very attractive girlfriend, and I often masturbate while I'm thinking about what it must be like to have sex with her.

[itsalyssaagain]

To answer your question, not really because you never really know what it’s like between two people behind closed doors. No such thing as a perfect relationship.


In reference to what you’ve described — it’s just a sign you’re unhappy in your relationship. I used to be in a relationship with a guy who didn’t give me the attention nor put in the effort that I deserved.


I watched a movie once and the guy was so attentive to the girl. He truly cared for her and loved her and showed up to her. He wouldn’t let her go to sleep if she was upset…mine didn’t even know that I was upset.


It was like a bell rang and made me realise just how unfulfilled I am in the relationship. It really pushed me to think about breaking up with him and what kind of man I want to be with and deserve to have.


So I’d say it sounds similar to your situation.

[catiecatie]

Yes. When my mom was my age she had a loving husband, which is my dad and still is the love of his life, and two kids. Shit I’m having a hard time finding a dinner date 😂. I do have a big crush on this guy, but we are keeping it professional. I do need to text him this weekend about a test so I’m hoping it works out in my favor. Fingers crossed!

[Pinay_ako]

No. Because I only see what they want us to see. Have you not seen enough Datelines? Behind closed doors of picture perfect couples…

[provokeesmokee]

Hm, envy is too strong a word.

Yearning is more accurate to me. I had a similar story to yours, but instead of romance it was my parents' abuse.

I find it now mostly a really small part of what I feel is yearning, mostly I'm happy and maybe taking notes on what sort of behaviour I'm looking for.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope.


Every relationship has its own problems.


Nothing to be envious about.


Now that I am single there are so less things I am stressed about.

[SnowedIn]

Totally understand what you're asking. (and sorry for your experience... I get it). And, yes, I've felt that way.

[LazerBean]

No, but it's common for karens like you to be since y'all sap the joy out of the lives of people around you.

[Alwayreckles93]

I a better then you ! No I am not old.

[LazerBean]

If that were true then your husband would still be with you.

[Alwayreckles93]

Oh please I am way more beautiful then you! Lol

[LazerBean]

Apparently you're not more beautiful than the Mexican your husband dumped you for.

[Alwayreckles93]

I was born with pure blonde hair. Plase don't makeme laugh a dark shit color skin bitch please.

[Alwayreckles93]

I look better then you ad a lot more younger. Your husband is blind what didnhe saw in your Asian face.

[LazerBean]

You can't laugh more than that Mexican girl is laughing at you lmao

[Alwayreckles93]

Both of you are useless young gen Z that expect daddy or ol dudes to pay for your bills. I have it all I bet your ass is full of debt.

[LazerBean]

Nope, plus both of us can actually keep a man unlike you lol you were born to be a single mom

[Alwayreckles93]

I am more beatiful then you thats for sure that dark skin witch please. I own a paid off house built wealth. That giy you are marry too he is only with you forbsex nothing else. there's other white woman that he might be intrested in instead of a Chinese woman.

[LazerBean]

My husband loves me while yours never did like no man ever will.

[Alwayreckles93]

Yes watch he will live you once you turn 30 . And dont think you will alway be young one day you will wake up and your husband will leave you for somwone else.

[LazerBean]

He won't, because I'm not a dumb hoe like you that picked a dumb hoe husband, and because I'm not a psycho like you that nobody likes.

[Alwayreckles93]

A lot of people don't like your ugly Chinese ass. Me a hoe please I was a virgen when I got marry. My high school crush we only gazed and glaced at each other thats it. Im a lot better then you at your age I was working hard now that I am 30 I am well off financially. I mist family gatherings weddings because I wasworking hard for my success. I am my own boss unlike you.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Wait, wait, wait.

Have you seen any Chinese asses to judge if they are ugly or not?

I might find you some in need of having your beautiful lips painted on them.

Do you think your sh*t is any better than someone else’s sh*t, just because your skin gets wrinkles a bit earlier than others?

What kind of success are you talking about when you can’t even spell a “virgin” and a person whose 3rd language is English - has to point it out to you?

Speaking of which, my 2nd language is Russian and I know some cool words I can teach to racists,

Иди на хуи, сука

That will be your homework to translate and repeat it to yourself until you learn respecting other races.

Or someday you’ll meet someone who won’t be as nice as I am.

[DarkLegacy]

@LazerBean @Alwayreckles93 she is a truly awful person, so judgmental of others and very quick to through around insults, she deserves to be alone with her attitude.

[DarkLegacy]

@Alwayreckles93 gen z are far more mature then the childish and petty behaviour of most millennials. and i ought to know. I have the misfortune of being one.

[Alwayreckles93]

Lazerbean Listen too me you 9 to 5 minimun wage slave , Stop swnding your little minion friends to defend you. Especially that peasant king2010 whtever is hi name.
If im privileged to have the lifestyl I have its because I work hard for it. Not like you expecting your in laws or your parents to support your ass.

[LazerBean]

Lol she's so triggered. And she wonders why she has no friends and no man will keep her bitter ass around.

[LazerBean]

Everybody knows you Mormons do that nasty hoe "soaking" and don't actually stay virgins till marriage, don't even try to lie we know you weren't a real virgin.

[LazerBean]

@DarkLegacy for real. Her husband probably left her for his own health benefit.

[Alwayreckles93]

Lazerbean im not a mormon you disgraceful useless trash. You must be one of those loner weird kids that got bully now you are taking your anger out. Your the lair here not me.

[Alwayreckles93]

Lazerban. Hey if you like tell ne whereto meet up and we start a fight lets see who gives the first punch your ass willend up in the hospital with broken bones.

[Alwayreckles93]

Lazerbean the bitter one here is you.

[Alwayreckles93]

I hope if you ever become pregnant you loose miscarige that fiture disgusting monster of bay of yours because that disgraceful disgusting baby will be dark skin and ugly.

[Alwayreckles93]

You know its true that I a way more beautiful thn you.

[Alwayreckles93]

Retur to china!

[Alwayreckles93]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 I don't haveto listen to you. Im taking pics of your post for the future to show to my personal lawyer. You hear that 9 to 5 minimum wage worker.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Good luck with that, waiting for you in China.

[Alwayreckles93]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 Well that will never happen I am not Chinese.

[Alwayreckles93]

I was a virgin until marriage if anything I am not a lair you would know that since I am straigh forward. I say things the way it is. Inlike you truly are a LAIR YOU LIED ABOUT BEING WHITE. YouandI know very well YOU ARE NOT WHITE! By the wY I bet my 19 year old cousin and your husband would make such beautiful adorble babies.

[Alwayreckles93]

You lied about your race you claim to be white when you have not one once of once of white in your blood.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

How about I tell you that all the white people are named after my people?

But I don’t stand around insulting other people for their skin color, which developed as a response to the geographical and climate characteristics to the places they lived in.

Once Earth’s population was 1500 people, our mothers and their mothers could have easily been siblings or cousins.

Imagine that pretty 19 yo cousin of yours moving somewhere getting her skin tanned for ages and ages, her descendants do the same for centuries , they’ll eventually develop darker complexions, you’d like to think that your children would love her children any less because they are less white? Think about it, what does hatred to other races give you? Does it make you any happier? I think it doesn’t. Even more, I think you are unhappy and that’s where your words are coming from, and if that’s so, I am honestly sorry for that, but It doesn’t give you an excuse to be cruel to others and to prove your superiority because of something so trivial. You are not superior because of your skin color, however, you can let people respect you for better reasons. For that, you need to realize you are wrong and we both know it, come on, you can’t tell me you don’t feel discomfort being thought as racist. Change that, you are more than your skin color, you don’t need to be proud of that, you’ve got more to be proud of, work on your self-esteem.

I don’t have a husband but yeah, I am also sure my future husband would make beautiful babies with just about anyone, that’s why he’ll be my future husband. I have a good taste in men. I’ll take it as a compliment.

[LazerBean]

Keep coping, white trash

[Alwayreckles93]

Lazer I agree with 40 year olds. Your generation of eating tidepods.

[Alwayreckles93]

Are clowns.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@Imtheking2010 Hey, King. Chills. There’s one guy, he’s called Jesus and everyone says his dad is the God, even he can’t scare me a bit, does it sound like I’d worry about anyone’s daddy? 🤣

[LazerBean]

And I agree with the 60 year old who talk down to dumb hoe single moms like you.

[Alwayreckles93]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 Sorry I was rude too you.

[Alwayreckles93]

Lazer you are just jelous of me lol

[Alwayreckles93]

And you are the weird girl that no one wanted to be around. You remind me of a weird emo girl that was a snitch and teachers for me and my friends to run the track. Yeah Iknownyour kind your that weird emo.

[Alwayreckles93]

Oh wow your a hoe nice too know. Oh you will be a single mom with your future ugly babies.

[RealMarek]

I wouldn’t call it envy, but when I was with my ex I saw relationships that were a lot healthier and realized I was missing out on a lot.

[DarkLegacy]

You deserve to be alone looking at the way you casually verbally abuse people including your racist comment below

[Anonymous]

No. Because even the best relationship take work to maintain. So if you see bliss they earning that. And it isn't always sunshine and rainbows. When I see two people genuinely happy together. I'm genuinely happy for them.

[exitseven]

No, I am pretty sure that my wife and i have one of the best relationships I have ever seen.

[baseball_del_tuono]

No but no w I envy your husband/boyfriend how’d he get you?

[LiamJHayden]

The way you've worded it, yes, I have always longed for a relationship like my parents or grandparents had.

[PointTaken]

I did. Yes. That was a while ago. Now I'm single, haven't started looking for a date yet. by the way, parts of Utah is nice. Lol

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. For one I don't struggle with envy, and two I seriously don't care about someone's else relationship.

[BLP11520]

I have a loveless marriage so I have all kinds of feelings and temptations

[Alwayreckles93]

Well you needbto repnt for your sins. Godbdoes not approve of affairs.

[BLP11520]

Did I say I gave into them?

[Alwayreckles93]

None of my business qnd i dont care.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

No, if anything I applaud it. ( That's the way it posed 2 b )

[loveslongnails]

Not since I was a teenager. LOL

[Christoff92]

Naw. Don't really care.

[Mansearching]

Not really.

[MannMitAntworten]

Nope.

[In_Trance]

no I haven't

[EaterPeter]

@Andres77

[Andres77]

But I’m getting divorced. It was fun while it lasted

[EaterPeter]

Sorry to hear that bruh

[EaterPeter]

Neither of you want to try to make it work any more?

[EaterPeter]

I think such relationships have high level of toxicity inbuilt. I have been in one, so

[Andres77]

There’s some historical stuff that came to light and some resurfacing of reckless behavior that I could not ignore.
So I’m focusing on making sure my daughters are as stable as possible