If a guy said he wants to be exclusive but wants us to be private and take things slowly are we not officiallygf and boyfriend yet?

[Fluffygoldie]

He mentions our future a lot and says we instead of you or I and he seems to really like me but are we not official until he asks me to be his girlfriend? Should I talk to him about this?

[SnowedIn]

Yes. Talk to him. If you want the title or you want to know where you stand, talk to him.

[RHK36]

Definitely talk to him. From my perspective he's purposely keeping it casual.

[BarryLiverstone]

How long have you known him and how many dates?

[Fluffygoldie]

We have been texting and calling and snapping a lot for about 2 months. We are gonna go to the same college in the fall but we live 6 hours away so we only met 3 times. Once was just hanging out for 5 hours at the college open house and two dates recently at night for dinner and for brunch the next day. He kissed me on both dated twice and confessed he liked me too and we had some deep convos as well about our relationship. We plan to meet again in about 45 days. He also hugged me from behind and he interlocked fingers to hold hands with me and put his hand on his thigh and rested his head in my neck.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because you are still long distance he has expressed that he wants to take things slowly. My assumption is once you are at the same college irl and he can see you then he will ask you to be his girlfriend. In the meantime are you in any hurry or wondering if you are exclusive?

[Anonymous]

No, but you are closer.