Would it be weird if I celebrate my boyfriend's Father's Day even if I'm not the mother of his child?

[theligirl]

I just want to give a Father’s Day gift for my boyfriend but I'm not sure if I should. What do you think?

[catiecatie]

Does he have a child? I mean you’re 41 if that’s you’re real age based on your profile and I don’t know if you have kids or not, but if you do then did you celebrate Mother’s Day? Then it goes both ways. If not I still don’t see a reason not to. Don’t do anything over the top. Something nice and simple.

[provokeesmokee]

I think that's sweet.

Personally, I wish my father friends happy Father's Day.

It's a nice gesture to just recognize the fathers you know. They don't have to be your dad or dad of your kids to be appreciated for being a good dad.

[mobiusforniner]

If I were a single father and you did something for fathers day for me and my kids, id think the world of you because it shows me you'll love my kids even if they aren't yours.

[Kevininja363]

Why shouldn’t you? If you want to spend the rest of your life with your boyfriend eventually his dad will become your dad. Better start early than never!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

If I were you and I had a boyfriend with a child, I’d rather do something for the child to enjoy with his dad too, not just for my partner - but for his child as well, a surprise, a present or something fun for their bonding, It doesn’t have to involve you, because it’s their day after all.

[PLAYBOYGOTCOINS]

FOH WOULD YOU ACCEPT A MOTHERSDAY GIFT THAT WAY THE CANDY AND THE FLOWERS ARE FOR YOU AND YOUR KID FOH

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@PLAYBOYGOTCOINS I don’t have a child. Are we talking about hypothetical situation?

[Smashingdoozy]

Yeah go for it that's super sweet.

I have a friend who I lived with from age 16 who has a daughter and I get him father's day gifts. It's a nice gesture to show how much he is appreciated and what a good job he is doing

[katiesmuff]

I think it would be a great idea. Regardless if you are the mother or not you are his girlfriend and very important to him. I'm sure he would be elated for you to do this.

[sheikalana]

I'm on the same boat. My partner has a son and I want to congratulate him because he's great. I'm not buying him any gift but I'm definitely wishing him Happy Father's day. I don't see nothing wrong with that.

[liburnia]

Of course it's ok to give him the gift and celebrate with him. It's his day, he is the father. I'm sure he would be delighted if you do that for him

[sheenagwapa]

i think it's very much ok... you are celebrating him being a good father and yoy enter in the relationship knowinh he has a kid so not weird at all

[Luopio27]

That is love. You accept both of them as very important part of your life. So as his girlfriend, you should take both of them to their favorite restaurant.

[Justneedtokno]

No, not at all. Have you seen his acts of being a good father and taking care of his children then that should be celebrated because it’s not celebrated enough

[Travis_Skyles]

I think it would be a really touching thing to do. He'd probably appreciate it and it shows that you value him as a good father to his child.

[Anonymous]

personally i think it's weird. i come from divorced parents and didn't want to see that. but that's just me...

[Leme2]

No not at all, I think he would really appreciate that actually.

[Anonymous]

So long as you're not taking away quality father's day time between father and child, I don't see anything wrong with giving him a gift.

[Jazzy54]

Of course you can! That would be so sweet and I’m sure he’d love it! 😌

[Kathy1983]

I don't see problem I know single parents children celebrate a single father mothers day and other way around.

[Nerdvana]

That is so sweet and thoughtful. He would love that. You are an amazing woman @theligirl

[LiamJHayden]

If the child is not old enough to grasp the concept, it should be fine.

[JesseP1nk]

You are not childs mother, but he still is a father :) I dont think its weird :)

[Kingofkings1992]

No. The only requirement is that he is a father.

[spartan55]

I think that's a great idea.

[Anonymous]

It is ok. You are saying that he is a good father. So, np.