Honestly speaking, once you’re in it, it is very difficult to go out.
If you haven’t declared your sentiments for her, just do it since it’s your only possibility. Being honest is a proof of courage and it’s your only hope, she could have something for you too.
But results aren’t assured, since she could reject you since she considers you only a friend… then you should break your friendship with her since being friend and contemporarily having some romantic sentiment means there’s no good balance.
You have to be willing to lose her as a friend, walk away and never see her again. You need to state that you want intimacy with her by being direct, not blunt and also showing behavior that supports it which creates the sexual tension and makes her see you in that light.
Say what you mean, mean what you say. "Hey, I like you and I am looking for something more intimate, ie sex and romance. I would like to take you on a date, when are you free?" If she beats around the bush or rejcts you, don't get mad. Smile and leave the door open by saying "if you change your mind l, give me a call." Then you walk away. This is important. From then on, you have to wait for her to make the first move and call. When she does, assume she wants to see you and set a date. In the meantime, practice with other girls that strike your eye.
yoy have to be clear with your intention. in my culture to assume that a guy likes you romantically is considered arrogant unless it is so obvious. life is short it is better to lose trying than losing for not trying at all. and you will never know the putcome may favor you especially if you pray to our God ✝️
You have to convince her you are her best option or her happiest choice. Otherwise, go for a girl that does not get a lot of attention.
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Stop pretending to be friends with girls that you have attraction to. You are taking advantage of them.
u You don't. Just because you want it doesn't mean she must give you a chance.
It's also nice to be friends with a girl. However, whenever I found myself wanting more at some point, it never worked out. We just remained friends.
Part of the difficulty is that I'm naturally a bit on the boring side. I suppose I always needed the thrill of novelty on my side for a woman to fall in love with me.
There's only one way I know of. It does carry the risk of losing the friend, though. Maybe not.
Confess your intentions.
I'm not for the "beating around the bush" approach. You'll drive yourself crazy, and possibly confuse your "intended".
At our ages, we just gotta confess our feelings.
That's my two cents.
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I think people don't know the friend zone is one of the greatest zones to be. All my friends with the exception of one, had some form of sexual fling with me. Girls always reward their friends who are genuine.
As for emotional relationship, don't ever push for it with a friend. The benefits of friendship is, if she wants you, she will let you know. She will never hide he feelings from you. So I advice that you look elsewhere.
You don't.
You leave them alone entirely if you can't accept being just a friend.
It's be nothing more than a platonic friend or be a stranger who doesn't talk to them. Those are your routes.
Don't enter it be clear about your intentions from the start. It's dating not friendship. Then there won't be much of an issue if you abort, if she fails the personality evaluation.
Stop acting like her friend. Otherwise, you will just be that. Start changing the dynamics gently. For instance, start flirting. See how she responds. And if she flirts back, there you go. I would tell her you see her as more. A lot of good relationships actually start as friends.
You don't, you move on. Now at some point she MAY seek you out. But at that point you need to evaluate whether she's even worth taking back. Because she was not smart enough to see your value to begin with. So she's a definite gamble. It's probably better to stick with a woman that accepts you from the getgo.
I've slept with most of my female friends so you don't necessarily have to get out of there. What's your desired end state? There one in particular you want to date?
I do not believe in the concept of a friend zone. But either she is attracted to you or she isn't. There is a little wiggle room with this but after a while if she does not respond its just not going to happen.
At my age nowadays and from my own baggage, I'd just move on. I'd just move on. If it were me. Anyways, always are other hot women out there for you and me and all, 💋💗 lol 😆
easiest way out of the friendzone is: stop being friends. can't be in the friendzone if you're not friends. there's enough other girls to have more intimate relationships with. fuck wasting your time for a girl who doesn't want you.
Ask her out? The worst thing that can happen is she's aro and she breaks up with you, both as a friend and as a woman.
That's how I'd react. My male friends know that.
You should think about making the first move. Compare it to baseball. I guess there is a chance you might be called on to pinch run now and then, but you'll get on base a lot more if you step up to the plate and take some swings.
Tbh, you don't. Women have ultimate control over who they choose to mate with. It's wired into them generltically. They either see you that way right out of the gate, or they don't.
Easy... go point blank and ask the question, then you'll know the answer to your own question.
You never replied to anyone. Have fun in the friend zone.
You don't. The friend zone is a final stop. What you do is eject her from your life and never tolerate the friend zone again. And don'take the same mistakes that landed you in the friend zone.
Once you are if the unfuckable category you won't get out of the friend zone
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