I decided to forgive my boyfriend for cheating on me online on our 5th month together. How do I get over it?

[Anonymous]

We have been together for 2 years. I found his old only fans account where he would pay other girls to sext with him and I consider this cheating. I decided to forgive him and things are going well and he’s been so amazing to me, but I feel it creep up in my mind occasionally. How do I get over it sooner? How do I let it stop hurting me? I don’t hold any anger anymore I’m not q spiteful person, I just think about it and my feelings will get hurt all over again. I don’t want to be that sensitive anymore and just get over it.

[MementoMori777]

i dont think you'll get over it, when someone betrays trust you normally never can see them the same again, you can forgive and extinguish anger but the new perspective just won't change cause you know the truth, he did you dirty, and being able to see him in the same light is impossible, which will keep manipulating your thoughts, its like a fruit you are gonna take a bite of, you drop it and it gets dirty so you properly clean it and it still the same, these are small forgivable and forgetable problems but imagine dropping the fruit and it breaks open, it changes the shape and look of it completely, you can't just pretend its still in the same shape, same here, this situation broke your trust, not just dirtied it where its repairable.

[In_Trance]

If you're not over it, you can't forgive him... wtf

[Anonymous]

He cheated on you 5 months in and 2 years later you still haven’t let it go? Doesn’t that tell you something? Leave the relationship, the trust is ruined and that’s his own fault. You will never be able to release the insecurities and worries he built within you by what he did.

[Anonymous]

Dump his sorry ass.