When was the last time that you were truly supportive of him, or offered him your over respect and appreciation? He's told you outright that you aren't supportive and cooperative, and you've admitted to being a nag. All of that will destroy a man's motivation to do anything for you, because you don't genuinely appreciate him, you just expect him to provide.
If you want any hope of salvaging this relationship, the two of you need relationship counseling, and you need to be ready to take accountability for your part. I'm sure he's not blameless either, but you have been using constant negative feedback and are surprised that you haven't gotten a positive outcome. Shocking.
You know how you get positive outcomes? By being positive. By finding things about him to appreciate and respect. That's what makes a man want to give you everything. When you give him nothing but negativity, he wants to give you nothing.
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What to do? You don't sound happy. How long has this been going on? What do you want? Are you happy to go on like this for another 30 years? Because that's going to happen.
Because he doesn't want to. He just wants the benefits you have to offer him. The very best case scenario here is that he's not currently cheating, but you're just a placeholder until he finds someone he actually wants to marry. And the worst case scenario, of course, is that he's already cheating.
QUEEN DONT FUMBLE, MAKE SURE YOU HAVE OTHER BITCHES JUST INCASE
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Why is EVERYTHING up to him? Classic female, you want your man to entertain you and all you want to do is show up.
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