My boyfriend of a few years has chosen to foster one of his students and then possibly adopt and his had the child for months and I have never met the child, but his family and friends have. Are time together has gotten less and on top of that I have never met any of his family or anyone significant in his life. I don't even know where he lives but this child lives there.
Well it depends. If it’s a niece/nephew or cousin that suffered a tragedy then of course I wouldn’t break up with him. However if he adopted someone out of the blue without even talking about it with me. I would feel betrayed because he chose to make an important decision without even mentioning it. Besides I feel like we would be to young to be able to raise a child properly.
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I call BS on this story. Your boyfriend of a few years? No way.
If your story is true and you're not trolling (and I don't believe that) then the least of your problems is the child.
No. That is not a decision that you should make by yourself if you have a partner, so it would be an instant dealbreaker for me.
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no i wouldn't continue it for one reason, for making such a big decision and excluding me out of it
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