boyfriend and I been together going on 4 years. Lately we’ve been fighting it’s been adding up so he saw a message where I called his sister, a loser and me grabbing my phone and him being suspicious that I’m hiding something because I grab my phone. That was on Saturday, he’s been mad since today we finally talked and he was pretty much fed up with everything and was naming all the negative in our relationship we were on the phone for an hour and 45 mins of him explaining all his doubts and he just said he didn’t know and wasn’t sure I said okay I get it. I said talk tomorrow? He said I don't know so I said okay I’d like to work things out so goodnight. What do you guys think
What does he mean when he says this?
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It sounds like you want to work things out while he still needs time. Thats fair, but keep in mind a partner thats "naming all the negative in the relationship" instead of offering suggestions might be thinking of a way out. Be honest about what you want.
He is confused on what to do after that, whether to breakup or fix things. He is gonna sleep on it
That unless u both change rhe relationship is dead
I told him I wanted to work things out, he said he didn’t know but he sounded like he didn’t want to let go but was also still upset so I was going to give him space
Thats all u can do till he decides