Guys, what are some reasons why a boyfriend doesn’t take a girlfriend out on a date often?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone, this question is mainly for the guys, but girls can answer too. What are some reasons why a boyfriend doesn’t take a girlfriend out on a date often? We do but like once every month or two. we used to go out all the time, we used to go out for a drive or out for adventures, but now we don’t do anything. What could be the reasons. thank you in advance.

[dolemite58]

why do girls still needed to be “taken out” out as often once ur in a relationship? I don’t think girls understand in the beginning stages of dating how stressful and unpleasant dates are for guys. We have to sing and dance while girls get to sit back and judge us. He had to sing and dance and put on the charm to get your approval, let him relax now for gods sake 😂

[Jakoesu]

I feel like, maybe life got him more busy instead of going out. If I had a girlfriend, I take her as much as she wants me to and maybe even spoil her with gifts because life for me now and days is boring and I want to do that in the future.

[gothbxtch]

could be money, but if you talk to him about it, maybe you two could think of some more cost effective options for dates together!

[Asker]

i have talked to him about it before and he told me is because i’m not worth it. last night he says he saved a bunch of money not taking me out.

[gothbxtch]

girl dump him, he literally told you you’re not worth it.

[Anonymous]

Money. Going out can get expensive. It all adds up.

[ButthurtGAGpeople1]

Money, usually

Or, he's not the kind of guy who "goes out"