Me and my partner live together. We have a great relationship but there's this recurrent situation that keeps happening whenever we're away from each other. We're both expats and once in a while we travel. Whenever we're away from each other I feel like my partner disconnects and we can go days without talking to each other this time has been the longest we've been away from each other. He went on a solo trip because our holidays do not match and he didn't want to have to stay home while I'm working when he's off work. He's been in Thailand for three weeks and we barely talk and whenever we do he's always busy doing something. I hate the feeling that I've been forgotten especially when I know he's not that kind of guy. He's always super sweet to me when he's home and believe I'm a good girlfriend I really take good care of him I cook for him everyday, take care of the house, take care of his laundry etc etc etc he doesn't have to do much in the house. I noticed he's been adding women that live in Thailand while he's on vacation and that's been making me feel so insecure. I get really upset when I think about it and it makes me cry. Do I have the right to fee this way or am I overreacting? Also what's the best way to address this issue?
My boyfriend keeps adding other women on IG while he's on holidays?
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Yes u have a right to feel this way all u can do is speak to him about it
Would you address this issue over the phone or when he comes back?
Depends on if u can wait or not in person is always better but is that eill take too long
I'd rather have this conversation in person too. I don't know yet when he's coming back but it's going to be anytime between this week and next week
Fair enough
Do you have scantily clad pictures publicly available on IG?
I don’t post those type of pictures and my IG is private I only have friends and family on my social media.
Very good then, he should NOT be following IG thots.
As for as, he is on holiday trip, so let him enjoy his tour, you need not to worry, he is yours
Do you think I shouldn't be concerned?
Yes, if you don't trust him