I pity them.
Obviously they're projecting their own experience onto me.
Just because they're miserable, doesn't mean I am.
For me, I really like living single in the city. I have a really good place to live, I have fun hobbies and communities I'm part of, and I don't need to worry about providing for anyone but myself.
I'm in a better place in all aspects of my life than when I was living in the city in a miserable relationship with manchildren or an emotionally unavailable girlfriend.
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Would just choose to ignore. It’s usually just projection. most people can’t be alone cause they can’t stand their own company so they assume others can’t as well.
I live in a small town, never a big city again. I generally don't hear the negative things people say about me, and I tend to not particularly care when I do. Most of the people saying things aren't as well off in life as I am, socially, emotionally, financially... i don't tend to take advice from people in broken situations themselves.
Because they themselves can't handle being alone so they automatically think you must be lonely too. Most people don't know how to be alone with themselves for fear of finding out who they really are so they constantly look for ways to be distracted, never knowing who they really are. Nothing wrong with being alone.
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I can't do anything about them people are people and they will say whatever
Don't let it bother you dont try to control things that are out of your control let them think say whatever and move on it doesn't matter what they do or sayThey don't think you're lonely. They're nosy, and need to do this to validate their flagging self esteem.
I'm not living alone in the city. I live with my parents still in a suburb of a large city. Just over 21,000 people here
i mean but who cares that much to tell you? it literally does not matter
Why do you care? Your self esteem is low
Because you are alone.
non business where orhow i do , so no trought
I wish I could afford to live alone.
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