I want to block and remove this girl from my life but my friends think that’s immature. What should I do?

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I’ve had an up and down relationship with a female friend of mines. It started off great, then she would screenshot our conversations and post them to her Instagram story. I’d confront her about it and she’d take days to reply and then laugh about how funny it was to her.

After a while, things got good again and I even had feelings for her. I made a move, she shut me down. Then after 2 weeks she hits me up again. Things go great for about a month. I invite her to go to an event with me as a friend. She says yes. I buy the tickets and she ghosts.

A week later she’s on Instagram complaining about some men not liking her hair and that it’s a red flag. Then she’s bragging about this dude taking her on a beach date. Every time she posts, it’s like 20-30 stories. I muted her.

Now she’s liking my stuff and interacting with me again. I tried to give away, sell, and return the tickets for the event but no one wanted the tickets and the organizer of the event was very rude to me. The event was last night, I didn’t go, and now I’m short about $220 because of this girl for something that wasn’t even a date.

I’m very angry and want to block her, but my friends are saying no because it would look bad. I don’t care about how it’s perceived because she doesn’t care that she said yes and wasted my money by ghosting.

I want to block and remove this girl from my life but my friends think that’s immature. What should I do?
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