I matched with a girl on Bumble and I spent the night at her house. We didn't do anything more than kiss, I only spent the night because we had a couple drinks and I live far away. I told her I was more than happy to sleep on the couch but she insisted I sleep with her in her bed. That night she did a confusing thing where I would be nowhere near her on the bed, intentionally to leave a respectful distance. But she would close the gap and lay on me and cuddle with me then after like 5 minutes of that would say things like "hey respect my space". I would say of course and let her roll back to where she was. I just want to make it clear I never once made a move on her. She kissed me, she cuddled me and so on. In the morning I went and took a shower before I started getting ready to leave and when I come out fully dressed ready to head out. When I get out she says to me "I dont think you respect my space or listen to me well enough I dont think we should hang out again. I told her if that is how she feels that is fine and it was nice meeting her. That next day she messaged me on bumble to tell me she deleted my number and blocked my contact I didn't respond. The next day she messages me on instagram and just says "hey how are you" I reply with "hey I thought you said you didn't want to talk or hang out anymore" and then I she doesn't reply. I then every couple days get similar messages. The last message I got from her she asked me how i feel about her and she said I wasn't supposed to just leave when she told me she didn't want to talk or hang out anymore. What do you y'all think about this and what is the best way for me to remove this person from my life respectfully?
A girl who asks me to leave her alone, but continues to text me ever other day. What does this mean? How do I respectfully remove her from my life?
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