50/50 in relationships. Yes or no?

[Anonymous]

Yes 50/50

No

[cuteangelprincess]

Controversial opinion. Many people nowadays devalue and don't respect all the labor women bring to the table. Imagine a woman creates life inside herself, with many hardships for 9 months per child, not to include the complications after child birth with her body, most of the times not being able to look the same way it did before. Lesser job opportunities overall, in many counties still earning less. On top of that, having to go grocery shopping on her own. Men who want traditional wimen who do chores and take care of the family, should be traditional themselves. Many have forgotten that men are providers and that's what most women are attracted to. Think of the masculine and feminine energies in a relationship. The women creates life inside her womb, not only that but she brings status to the man she is with, along with other bonuses. Still don't understand why women should pay for a date, when they got asked out?
Saying a woman should pay for as much as you do is devaluing all the emotional values she brings to the table.
Provider men will always be more attractive than men who are in their princess treatment era.

[_piotr]

She should pay, because people are equal and women are not superior. Your life as women is full of privileges. Ability of creating new life comes to you free. Men can do groceries themselves. Men needs to fight for status himself, while women have high statuses from birth. 9 month pregnancy is the only trouble you have in the whole life and you are helped by doctors, nurses, husband and medical equipment. I and probably millions of men would like gladly experience the pains of pregnancy to live an easy, fun, privileged, luxury life you women have.

[cuteangelprincess]

You are completely oblivious and delusional

[_piotr]

But I will not be women's slave. You are treating men worst then dogs. Through entire history western men were treated like butlers, had to open doors for women, kneel before women like servants. They were forced to work for women like slaves and to die in wars, while women enjoyed fashion and and sat comfortably at home. Now feminists want to round men population to 10%.
On Titanic men were shot because they tried to get into life boats. Women were to be saved. Men were left to die.
I wish you could become a man for few years and suffer under the yoke of your female supremacist friends. Than we could talk. Have some empathy.

[_piotr]

Already your nick tells a lot about you: angel, princes exalt yourself. Women are humans. You are NOT GOD.
From Bible: "For those who exalt themselves will be humbled"

[cuteangelprincess]

I won't argue further with someone who is as oblivious to women's issues and battles throughout history as you could possibly be.👍🏻

[_piotr]

Good. I do not have time for that made up lies. I spent years researching how women used and still are mistreating men so I am not oblivious. I am aware how evil you are. I hope in future men will die out - you will loose your servants and no one will be humilated for being inferior male gender. Have a nice day.

[Honeysuckle12345]

@_piotr obviously you were not brought up properly. Which is pretty disgusting. Woman have fought in Wars why don't you try educating yourself? A woman have suffered alongside men and famine, disease, and everything else. Men like you are pathetic and why you will always end up with nobody of value as a woman

[_piotr]

@Honeysuckle12345 Disgusting is how men are treated in society and how women applaud this sexist, man-degrading, gynocentric system.

For centuries men were forced to fight, women not. Women were always treated better during disasters (like on Titanic, where men where shot for trying to rescue themselves). Savoir-vivre always put women higher in hierarchy than men. Men needed to act like, butlers, servants (open doors for women, etc...). Men had to work like slaves and be providers while women stayed at home like masters, took the money and spend on their whims.

Women get privileges, empowerment, beauty, awe and love of society, while men are still treated like trash and cannon fodder.

Look what is happening in Ukraine, men can not escape and are forced into military, while women can cross borders and hide in different countries. Feminists want to slaughter men by masses.

There are even spaces just for women, car parks for women, like establishments with signs "Nur fur deutche" (only for Germans) in Poland when it was occupied by nazi in WW II and polish people where considered as worse rase.

I do not need to end with women. I do not need master over me. I will not be woman's slave!

You are just angry and disgusted because I unveiled women evilness.

[Honeysuckle12345]

@_piotr hardly I was raised properly in which a woman and men are equal I would never expect a man to behave that you explain but I know that plenty of men in your category expect women to be slaves

[_piotr]

@Honeysuckle12345 No! I am all for equality with all my heart! If I had wife I want somebody equal.

That is why I get angry reading, for example how woman brags how she works in kindergarten and teaches boys that they should "serve" (she used that world) girls and carry books everything for them and how "sweet" it is.

Or that men have to pay on dates. Some experts in field of manners say woman should not even say "thank you" because she is entitled to it. This means I do not pay for the date I want to do it for her, I must do it, because it is imposed. It's not my good will anymore, it is coercion.

Why women can escape war, but men can not?

Why courts favour women?

Why women were rescued during maritime disasters and men were shot for trying to get into lifeboats, even when there were empty places left?

Even fairy tales are ill-constructed. Do you know that telling a kid a story about dragon, who kidnapped a princes and locked her in tower and many knights died to save her except one who finally did it, you are already feeding kid's mind with message that life of one women is equal to hundreds lives of men.

I am all against double standards. I am for equality. But true, not the "one" that benefits women. I do not see a reason why out of two humans, one is to be viewed as superior because she is a women.

[WiccanLady2023]

50 / 50 in what?

50% of the time I love the guy?

REAL relationships are ALWAYS 100%. Anyone who thinks anything less than that isn't mature enough to be in a serious relationship with another adult.

[RoseySarah]

Mine is 150, 150 for both of us!
Always times you don't want to do something but need to... Like gardening

[WiccanLady2023]

@RoseySarah Yes many men don't like gardening. They make up for it in maintaining the house otherwise such as cleaning the eves. That is what a real relationship is about - you do your part, you don't expect your partner to carry you along for a ride

[RoseySarah]

Lmao cleaning elves? Like the dog poo fairy!
People just assume that their dog poop on my yard gets picked up but I have to!

[Honeysuckle12345]

@RoseySarah she said eves that's part of the roof of a house. Do you know nothing?

[WiccanLady2023]

@RoseySarah Hmmmm... I could say something about your mental issues but I said eves not elves. Every house has eves. It's part of the roofing system.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you are concerned with maintaining an accounting in a relationship, it is probably doomed to fail. Sometimes, my partner is weak and I need to make more effort. Sometimes, she works late and I cook so the meal it is ready when she gets home, even though cooking is what we agreed she would do as part of her household responsibilities. Sometimes, I just have more knowledge and experience in an area and I take care of something for her. She wants to return home to visit her family she hasn't seen in 12 years, and I will miss her horribly for the month she's gone, but I know she needs to do this so I encourage her.

When you love someone, you aren't selfish. You give because you want to give. And my partner does the same things for me. And I don't care if it's 50/50, 51/49, 70/30, or something else. All I care about it that I give what I want to give and I receive what I think I need to receive.

[Anonymous]

No, 100%. Even then I’m still on the wire about that. Lets say she worlds 10 times harder than him but in his mind he’s giving 100% is which is not much effort but he feels like he works hard when she works harder. People have their own interpretation of what working hard means. I work medical. I may see 15 patients in one day, someone else may see 10, but they’re exhausted, they feel like they worked hard. But I on the other hand feel I worked hard, that they did the bare minimal. Hard to say.

[Asker]

That's where communication and comprehension come into play

[DaveJord]

50/50 yes, but one person will always do more in one area, and the other will always do more in another. But almost never if ever it will be 50/50 straight across the board.

[ProbablyClueless]

I have no interest in being involved in any kind of relationship where people are keeping score, maintaining accounting records, or are somehow keeping track of debts. Been there, done that, and I have no interest in ever doing anything like that again. It gets so horribly toxic so fast that you may as well kiss any intimacy goodbye the instant anyone pulls out a pen.

As for whether things are 50/50; it's all about what feels natural for that particular relationship. I'm not opposed to the idea of going halves, but if we even need to have a conversation about it; please just put your wallet away and consider our dinner bill my way of compensating you for the time you wasted on an unfruitful evening.

[ohsheeT]

The very first second you're into the relationship is 50/50 one second after it all changes it doesn't matter as long as everybody pulls their weight one day it might be it might be 100 / /0. The next day. 25/ 75. Next day 20/20. You try for that 50/50 some days you'll go way over some days you'll go under but it's the principle of just working together to keep that high percentage

[Billlewis]

I'm a firm believer that the woman should always have a decided advantage in any relationship she has with a guy, and my ideal ratio is 70/30 or 80/20, in favor of the female.

[DextroShade]

This 50/50 bullshit needs to die. No company has two CEOs, no country has two presidents, no ship has two captains, and no relationship has two leaders. The man MUST be the one to make the decisions and the woman follows or the relationship is doomed to failure.

[DarkWinterNights]

Didn’t really work out for my friends marriage. Seemed they were always arguing about who was paying for what and who owed more. Felt very transactional and devoid of intimacy.

[Kaamraj]

Nothing in life is totally 50-50. In a relationship the party that cares the least, or can walk away holds the leverage and can do less. Normally this is most younger women.

[Sour-rose]

50/50 of what? Sharing the bed? Abuse? Love? What?

[Billlewis]

I believe the ratio she's referring to is how much effort is put forth by each partner to please the other partner. In other words, if I'm in roughly an 80/20 relationship with the woman I'm serving, that means that, theoretically, 80 percent of our relationship is allocated for her benefit, while only 20 percent is deemed necessary for me.

[Sour-rose]

@Billlewis Oooooh, i see, thanks

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, you're quite welcome, and if I may say so, if ever there was an example of a woman who deserves considerably more than fifty percent of the focus of the relationship to be on her, you represent exhibit 'A', in my humble, admittedly insignificant opinion.

[Sour-rose]

@Billlewis <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

[thenameless22]

Each person giving 50% effort does not equal 100%. It just equals two people giving 50%. Each person needs to put in 100% effort. Nothing less.

[UniquelyBasic]

I feel like it's hardly ever even in a relationship though. Sometimes one person or both people won't be able to give 100% depending on the situation.

[Anonymous]

No..

In what area tho?

50/50 both alive Yes 😂

But otherwise no.

[inhua]

50/50 sounds good on paper but doesn't work in practice

[Sparkie460]

No, definitely not. Each partner should give 100% to the other partner.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, sounds good to me, 50/50 in a relationship.

[AydenHazor]

I don't like the idea of 50/50 in a relationship as each party should be giving 100% if they really want it to work

[TonyMetal___86]

In my case no cause if i met someone someday and we decided to get married than she will become a housewife

[SolitarySolace]

Supposed to be, but isn’t and won’t be. Not these days.

[Anonymous]

They usually end with divorce papers.

[Asker]

I bet. I see why!!

[Opinion Owner]

It's because they focus too much on everything being a mirror themselves instead of what makes men and women happy.

[Asker]

Whats crazy about that is I focus so much on my partner I've made it easy for him. NO MORE.

[Opinion Owner]

You got it wrong. You need to treat him like the king that he is.

[Opinion Owner]

Unless he's abusive then leave his ass.

[Asker]

I was treated him like a king but he never took me out on dates and neglected my birthdays and always had an attitude on holidays. Why would I treat him like that when he doesn't treat me like a queen? He's emotionally abusive too

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah then just leave him.

[zebronics]

It doesn't work really!

[Anemone978]

Yeah 50/50 is good enough..

[RavVid]

Not in everything should it be 50/50

[Drumlin2001]

Depends on circumstances

[Anonymous]

No it's 100/100

[Asker]

Clever but it never works that way

[Opinion Owner]

Not with the wrong person. You can't make your partner give 100. But you can determine whether worth continuing with. Some people need help getting there and some have no intention of getting there.
The greatest lesson I learned long ago was to be alone. I'm OK being alone. I'd rather be alone than be in a relationship with a woman who isn't putting for the same effort.

[Asker]

I agree

[jahaims]

Fire is hot. Yes or no?

[Asker]

Fire hurts too

[Asker]

Lol if you touch fire you will be burned yes or no

[Nikki1989]

Of course!

[serious_miss419]

100/100

[BCRanger10]

No. 100/100.

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. 100/100

[exitseven]

Yes, 50 50

[Unit1]

Works for me.

[cammy-xo]

I’m in!

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope

[LavLavLuv]

Yes🙂

[Cherkez]

No..

[jimmy2]

As possible