Ladies, do you stand up for and backup your man?

[KrakenAttackin]

If in a group setting, with or without your man, and someone talks smack about your man, do you stick up for him? Do you publicly back his move?

YES, I always stick up for my man and back his move publicly.

NO, he's a big boy and he can stick up for himself.

Maybe, maybe not.

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I asked this question because how few women back their men in public. So many times I've heard someone make a sideways comment about a guy and his women not only doesn't have his back, but actually joins in ripping on him.

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Ladies, a man really wants his woman to HAVE HIS BACK, no matter what. Even if you disagree, talk with him in private, DO NOT stand there and argue with him in public.

You want a man to be loyal to you, SHOW LOYALTY TO HIM.

To actively trash talk your man in front of others will positively kill your relationship. Also, when you are out for "girls night out" (*sigh*), DO NOT partake in the shit talking women do about their men.

[WiccanLady2023]

I always back up my man. Not just in public but private with work ventures. Just as how he does me.

Bluntly put in general if someone is unwilling to support their partner - be they man or woman - they should get lost. Should see themselves out with the rest of the trash.

Such people contribute no value to a relationship and are far better off prostituting - men and women - themselves out for cheap sex than being involved in relations.

[ta-ra]

A women who truly loves someone (her man, kids, family) will stick up for them no matter what. They take it as a personal insult. If they don't, they don't love you

[ta-ra]

Thank you for MHO ❤️

[DarkLegacy]

No not no matter what, if he has done something wrong who will be pulled part for it and you would in the wrong defending him.

[inhua]

depends on how attractive he is at least testosterone-wise

the more attractive he is, the more she'll absorb the majority of his fire

the less attractive he is, the more the clock is ticking till the day she either dumps him or cheats on him if he doesn't do enough to impress her

[RoosterBreast]

Did I read testosterone?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dG5cZzbKvW0

[DextroShade]

A woman should always back her man in public and save any disagreements to be duscussed in private. If she publicly contradicts her man she disrespectful him and makes him look like a chump. The more value a man has, the less of this he will tolerate.

[KrakenAttackin]

It's amazing how few women understand this.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I was raised with a brother, the very first thing my mom taught me is to always respect him and even if he said something stupid in public, always be the first person to back him up.

If I want to argue I would only do so at home. She would ask me “If people don’t see how much his own older sister respects him, how are they going to learn to respect him?”

He grew into a wonderful, strong man.

And that outlook on life has helped me with men in my life, I always support them no matter what and even if they do the stupidest thing in the world, I am the first person to respect it and teach everyone that this is how they should treat my man, with respect.

[musicbrain5]

Always! He is a good person who deserves respect. He’s not perfect and he makes mistakes, as we all do, but I don’t like to hear people talking shit. I’ll put them in their place.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I do. I'm pretty reserved, but I can't stay quiet if I hear crap about somebody I care about, I'll speak up. And if it's a lie, I'll speak up Angrily :p

[Anemone978]

Only I can put my man down.. no one else has the right to.. I don't let others talk shit about him but yes on occasion I do put him down because he sometimes really sucks..

[whirled_up_girl]

Yeah, I would.

[worldscolide]

My wife definitely has my back.

[Iron_Man]

I would hope they would