Why is love confused with pleasure nowadays?

[MaxUsefull]

[mstbooblover]

Most probably, confusing love with pleasure, is the result of intimate pleasure being taboo during so many centuries. Nowadays, in some parts of the world, the notion of pleasure is slowly getting accepted, and probably due to a lack of maturity and insight, confused with love.

The fact actually is that two people loving each other will in all logic have pleasure together ;0)

[Anonymous]

Because most people want what cheap and easy. Pleasure is easy. Actually committing to someone and putting forth effort that take work on thier part. It's much easier to just have a f*** buddy and delude yourself into believing they care about you.

[Hinaaaaa]

Cause people don't actually fall in love... they get infatuation catch feelings & jump to another person cause of Soo many options... people are thinking materialistically... like they don't put efforts & say I lost feelings... the other gets hurt & make sure to never fall in love...& the cycle keeps going on... with a chain of broken hearts...

[KrakenAttackin]

Addicted to lust and drama.

[Hinaaaaa]

@KrakenAttackin yeah cause they need constant Dopamine

[KrakenAttackin]

@Hinaaaaa. Exactly right.

[Spongebobssocks]

Probblaby because of short attention spam from social media and due to everything being materialistic today.

[Sonorous]

Ummm... Love will always be pleasure. If it weren't, people wouldn't flock to it. They'd either be indifferent about it or they'd be against it.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Sonorous. No,. love will not always be pleasure. Losing a loved one is not pleasant and the more you love a person the harder the loss.

[Sonorous]

I never claim that love will always be a pleasurable experience. But people don't get into relationships because they know it will hurt a lot when the other person dies. They aren't thinking about that. That's not fueling them. What's fueling them is the pleasure they feel from being with that person while they're alive.

[inhua]

this is what happens when morals, ethics, values, religion and faith are thrown out the window. humans revert back to animalistic tendencies

[Singing_Hollow]

Because pleasure (lust) is easier. Love can be a pleasure too but its a different form. To love someone takes hard work that most people arnt willing to do and opt for lust instead.

[DextroShade]

Most women are ran-through to the point of being broken and can't understand the difference.

[cosmosis181]

This guy's not wrong.😬

[Dela_99]

So who is running through men? Why y'all love to act like you are angels? You are even worse lmao

[DextroShade]

@Dela_99 wrong. 1 in 3 men are either virgins or haven't had sex in over a year and most men struggle to even get a date. It's a small minority of men who are sleeping with most of these hoes. You are very ignorant.

[Dela_99]

@DextroShade because they have no options and can’t get laid lmao, while women have plenty of options but men are still sleeping around with these women. This argument is silly cause who are the women sleeping with? You are just as h*rny lmao

[DextroShade]

@Dela_99 logic and reading comprehension are obviously not things are good at but you are only a woman so it is to be expected.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Dela_99 Incorrect. It's the top 4% of men that are plowing through wou women like a combine through a corn harvest. 70% of women are chasing the top 4% of men's and yes he will have sex with you, but he will never commit.

[Dela_99]

@KrakenAttackin you are ridiculous if you think 4% of men are getting 70% of women at that point you need to join us in reality 😂💀

[Dela_99]

@DextroShade I don’t expect brains from a man either and that explains a lot of the shit you say lmaooo

[Dela_99]

@KrakenAttackin “he will have sex with you but he will never commit” is not the threat that you think it is💀💀💀💀💀 thank god lmao

[KrakenAttackin]

@Dela_99 I made no threats , just stated facts. The dating sites have studied attraction in depth. The vast majority of women think 80% of men are unattractive, and these same women significantly overestimate their own level of attractiveness.

[Dela_99]

@KrakenAttackin your redpill source said that? According to studies men have a self inflated idea of their value and looks lmao, and men are more narcissistic so it adds up😂 now you don’t have to be attractive to think that 80% of men are unattractive, I didn’t even see you and i think u are unattractive too, the lack of intelligence in men is a turn off in itself💀💀

[MaxUsefull]

@Dela_99 Is this profile photo real? the guy with one hand sees this news and the other is amused? 😂😂😂

[DextroShade]

@Dela_99 you are going to die alone, probably homeless.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because its an extension of it. You love something because it brings you joy.

[Anonymous]

It is? Guess people are just getting dumber and dumber.

[Billlewis]

Because love is in such short supply.

[KrakenAttackin]

Love is confused with lust.

[love_conquers_lust]

See my name.