Is it good that I’m now at peace?

[Anonymous]

So I used to be bothered by the fact I could never get a relationship as someone who was autistic I used to think it would never happen. Well a few years an ago I got into a relationship and ultimately it was ended earlier this year and I feel ultimately that I proved something to myself and that for me is extremely important. I do feel like it probably won’t happen again but it’s like my heart and body are at peace because I actually experienced it once and it’s now no longer the unknown

[jennifer_bloom]

That might be good that what is not known has been experienced. Me, I think its better to be single then in an unhappy marriage or married to somebody that is not a good person and I find most of the relationships I am aware of are either abusive or the partner is unattractive or there is no abuse but the person is not a good person. I won't go into detail cause I don't want to trash my inner circle but only about 10% of the married people I know are people that I would consider to be in acceptable relationship. Like over 20% of the wives I know treat their husbands bad if he is poor or jobless and around 30% would divorce them if they go more than 6 months without a job, even after 40 years of marriage.

[Anonymous]

Don’t even feel bad for yourself. We all reincarnate anyway. Literally we all come back here.

You’re living the life you’re living right now because before you were born you signed up for it. You agreed to it. We all did. We knew the suffering and pain we’d experience in this world and we still agreed to it.

Why? Because our existence as just souls was boring. So we chose to come down here and experience the good and the bad here. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

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https://www.youtube.com/embed/DRc430cTkQk

[Yannae]

Peace is a good thing. Finding peace, what ever the demon is, can be a hard long journey.

[Anonymous]

Great 😊. Yeah, don’t lose hope just yet and don’t just settle for someone because you’re lonely. I’m autistic and I get lonely too.

[gorydetails]

Well there you go.