Observe others in relationships (whether in real life or movies or books). Put yourself in the shoes of the character and live vicariously through that character. You'll find it very easy to determine what types of things work for you and what types of things wouldn't work for you. Make a list of everything that draws you closer or energizes you. Make another list of all the red flags and turn-offs. By mapping these two lists, you can get a fairly clear picture of the type of partner you'd be drawn to and the type of partner you could enjoy for an extended period of time. This is merely a good starting point. Once you actually experience relationships, you'll find it easier to fine tune that picture. Make sure you learn from each of your experiences, and don't continue to hold onto something that doesn't work (expecting the other person to change).
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You'll feel what you're lacking. Don't bottle it up but voice your needs. Don't feel like it's stupid or not important because it's something you think is small and insignificant, it's not.
Communicate your wants and needs.
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You could probably learn from the romantic relationships of other people in your life. A lot of that kind of thing is learned through doing though.
Either talk to people in a good relationship, or talk to your partner and see what they would like
Well you probably don't have any then at this point.
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