Do you ever get suspicious of your lover?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Let me be blunt and I know some girls or women will read this and not like this but I don't care. A girl or woman can be trusted more if she doesn't drink, if she doesn't do drugs, if she is not running to tattoo parlour to be heavily tattooed, if she's not chasing money/status, who she follows on social media also dictates her lifestyle or thought process. There's a difference if you are following Kim Kardashian, Jenna Ortega, Entertainment Tonight, Hollywood news, radical feminists. Also worth noting and probably the most important is her upbringing, if she comes from a broken home, bad father she will most likely sleep around. Some people date or are in relationships because 1 person is super loyal and the other isn't, hence, raising suspicion. Sometimes both people in a relationship are untrustworthy and toxic for each other, that happens to. For example, if two people are good looking, a guy is incredibly handsome and a girl is extremely beautiful, I have to think at some point who is going to cheat on who? That's the sad thing about life is I don't get why people cheat. I'm a simple guy. I don't like to go out that much and if I do it better be worth my time. I don't like clubbing or partying or going to bars.

I prefer travelling to interesting places with historical or religious meaning, nature walks, maybe a sporting event here and there, something unique. But i'm good sitting at home on a leather recliner and watch the Chicago Bulls play on tv with a plate of chicken wings and nachos on a Saturday night. I have guy friends who go to strip clubs or behaved like fools or their views on life didn't align mine so I distanced myself from them. A girl doesn't have to worry I'm cheating or sleeping around, it's simple i will provide my undivided attention to her but still give her space to have a life, what more can a female ask for? I'm hard working -- 2 jobs, going to school for a Masters, work out, get up at 6am or 5am to jog outside even if it's -10, come home, eat eggs/toast/beef sausages, bowl of fruit and go to work afterwards.

Giddyup · Accepted Answer

Depends, suspicious of their intentions, suspicious their cheating or suspicious of something else?

Typically I am never suspicious, I can't have a good relationship if I'm worried your not into it on every level. If your not then I'll know soon enough😉.

Реrverted_Сreeр · Accepted Answer

I've had so many lovers, more than the stars in the sky, each one a different flavor of depravity. But do I ever get suspicious of them? You bet your tight little ass I do.

It's like a game to me, watching them squirm as I pry into their secrets, trying to hide their hard dicks from me. They think they're clever, but I know every trick in the book.

And when I finally catch them in the act, oh boy, do I give them a piece of my mind. And by that, I mean I tie them up and tease them until they're begging for release. Their throbbing cocks straining against their restraints as I take control of their pleasure.

But let's not forget about the visuals. Imagine a pulsating cock, thick veins bulging as precum drips down the shaft. Or the sight of a man writhing in ecstasy as I stroke his prostate with my fingers. It's enough to make anyone weak in the knees.

So, to answer your question, yes, I get suspicious of my lovers. But it's all part of the fun. The thrill of the chase, the satisfaction of catching them, and the pure unadulterated pleasure of making them submit to my every whim. Oh, did I mention the toys? Because trust me, I have an arsenal of kinky sex toys that will blow your mind. From nipple clamps to ball gags, from floggers to paddles, there's nothing I won't use to bring my lovers to their knees. And when they finally surrender, oh boy, the fireworks are explosive. They come harder than they ever have before, screaming my name as their bodies shake with orgasmic bliss. It's a sight to behold, a true masterpiece of erotic art. So yeah, I get suspicious of my lovers. But I wouldn't have it any other way. It keeps things interesting, and it keeps my pussy wet and ready for action.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I’m neither suspicious or jealous when a guy I like is interested in other women but I do demand exclusive romantic attention if a guy decides to choose me for a relationship. If he pursues another woman, I won’t hate him or hate his new interest, but I will disappear from his life cause I believe I deserve exclusive romantic attention.

Apple1996 · Answer

Not really. I can tell when he's lying and I'll call him out on it so no reason to think he's being sus

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No, she has never done anything that aroused the slightest suspicions in me.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

When I am in love, I tend to trust him, but before I fall, I am very suspicious of people, I need to make sure it’s safe of me to fall in love.

AviatorTom · Answer

Nope. TRUST is the key word.

Screenwriter · Answer

OK. Maybe those boyfriends were. But are you going to spend your time in a relationship worrying about whether your partner is cheating? There has to be some basis of trust in your relationship where this is the last thing you're worried about.

Maybe those guilty boyfriends betrayed themselves by not being trustworthy in other ways, long before the cheating with someone else occurred.

petitedollbabee · Answer

With ex-lovers, yes, and it was always my intuition telling me that they’re cheating.. which turned out to be correct  every time . But my current partner? No way. He’s never given me any reason to doubt him or doubt his loyalty. He’s never acted shady or secretive.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I got suspicious of my very first ex-girlfriend, who seemed like she didn't want to talk to me when she was about to break things off with me.

A_Bell · Answer

No. Suspicion is a self fulfilling prophecy.

slatyb · Answer

No, I never have. My ex-wife probably would have if she could have, but she wasn't very attractive. I never worried about any other women I dated.

Andres77 · Answer

Two ex-wives. I had dreams about both of them. So then I started checking and found out about them both

sheenagwapa · Answer

i don't have a lover. but with my ex i don't. i trust him. it's actually boring because of trusr so i would text him pretending to be anotger girl and see if he would bite. i find it so funny.

Aishakaba · Answer

Urrrrr red flag. Your partner should make you feel secure enough so that you don't get suspicious. I will say go with your intuition it will never steer your wrong

shades777 · Answer

used too but now i simply dont date anyone i don't trust

fuddly · Answer

What about you @TravelingMaaike  what you think yourself?

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Generally no, but there were times when I should have been.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

No way my partner is one of the most trustworthy people I have ever known

Radiate143 · Answer

If they seem unnecssarily secretive or something looks off. I'm not one to pry.

Guido · Answer

Never. We have 100% trust between us and have from day 1. Never had a reason in all the years we have been together.

exitseven · Answer

Never. we are totally committed to each other.

Anonymous · Answer

No but men who see escorts as a hobby. Their partners sense it and root through their phone and find out.

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I got suspicious of my very first ex-girlfriend, who seemed like she didn't want to talk to me when she was about to break things off with me.