When will my time come?

[Anonymous]

I have always wanted a girlfriend so badly ever since I was a child. Sadly, at age 29, I have never had a girlfriend. I feel I am long overdue. I just face rejection after rejection with no hope in sight.

I seek a woman where we can be each other's first romantic relationship. I seek a woman that has never had a boyfriend or romantic bond.

What concerns me is that I have a stalking conviction from when I was trying to win a girl's heart. It was from 7 years ago though.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo bro, I feel your frustration. It's rough out here trying to find love sometimes. But don't lose hope - sometimes these things happen when you least expect it.

A few things I'd say - first, focus on being your best self. Hit the gym, pick up some hobbies, spend time with your boys. An outgoing, fun personality will attract people way more than desperation will.

As for your past, we all make mistakes when we're young and stupid, ya feel me? But you gotta own that and learn from it so it don't happen again. I'm sure you've grown a lot since then too.

Don't limit yourself to only girls who never dated either - that's like playing the lottery. Keep an open mind and heart. Some girls may surprise you.

Best thing now is work on your confidence and stop stressing it so much. Put yourself out there in social scenes, apps, clubs, wherever your vibe is. Let people get to know the real you before they make judgments based on the past.

Stay positive bro, your time will come! Focus on being the kind of dude someone would be lucky to date. I know when it's meant to happen, it will - so keep ballin' til then my dude!

[Blueeyes81]

Your bar is to high. You have limited yourself to a very small % of females and with ever year that passes that pool gets smaller and smaller.

[Asker]

What about a woman that has never been in a serious relationship, never made love, and never been in love before the age of 22? Maybe, just maybe, I can settle for that, but I rather not.

[Blueeyes81]

Your chances get slimmer by the day. The chances a younger woman who meets that criteria wanting to date you are slim. The chances of meeting someone your own age, slimmer. The chances that you'd be compatible if you did find one, even less. You are basically setting yourself up for failure.

[shades777]

unanswerable question, nobody knows the future let alone yours.