If you were someone opened to being in a relationship with a single mom. What would the conditions be in order for the relationship to work with you?

[Anonymous]

Say she only has the one child to someone whom she was in a relationship with for 7 years, but things ended, and the biological father decided he didn't want to be a father and walked away, and he hasn't been in the picture since. No she has never stopped him from having access to the child or from being in the child's life. Him walking away was his own decision because he he was not in a good mental state to raise a child.

Would this be a red flag to you?

[TomMarks]

Not a red flag, but I’d have to get to know the lady as with any relationship. I wouldn’t add any extra requirements as she has had enough issues, and if it was to happen, I’d try to work with her child’s father as best I could to allow the relationship with the child to continue.

[Asker]

You have to be the first person I have ever seen offering to want to work with the father to help make a relationship work with his child. You sound like a really caring guy.

If you have a girlfriend I hope she knows how lucky she is to have you in her life and if you are single whoever you marry will be so blessed

[TomMarks]

I know what it is like to be the child in that situation. I wouldn’t want to hurt the child. I have an amazing girlfriend now that if she agrees will be more soon.

[Anonymous]

Depends on your financial situation

[Asker]

Working a minimum paying job but manages get by and never ask for money.

[dudeinohio]

No red flag