I have a few female friends and I noticed they are often already checking out on the relationship they're in and starting to chat with other guys in a romantic way. They seem to wait with braking up untill they have found a potential candidate for their next relationship before breaking up with their current relationship partner
To me it seems like cheating although they always tell me they aren't flirting with those guys. But I'm not stupid.. I know they are
To me it seems like cheating although they always tell me they aren't flirting with those guys. But I'm not stupid.. I know they are
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Honestly, yea. I dont consider it cheating to interview the replacement. Its fcked up and possible emotionally cheating but i take physical cheating more serious
Thanks for your honesty, appreciate that 💪
Nevertheless it's kind of a lame excuse that physical cheating is more serious. Sounds like a typical excuse woman would use downgrade their own mistakes tbh #no offense to you
Im not offended. I accept my behavior
So that means you also accept that behaviour from your boyfriend then right?🤔
The way i see it, everyone has a backup plan. The day i agree to date someone, i likely saw someone else that attracted me a few mins/hours before. In my mind, i’m thinking “wow if im ever single again, i’m going for that”. It just it what it is. I dont think its wrong to get to know someone if you know the relationship is getting ready to end. Im not gonna have sex nor sext the person while im with someone else. I mean lets face it, thats what most men and womens “friends” are. People they’ll get with the moment theyre single. If not, its only because one of the two rejected the other
That's you already kind of cheating yourself away out of a relationship before it even started. If you look at it like that you will never be loyal to anyone I assume right?🤔
My backup plan is to invest time in myself, be alone, heal properly before taking the crap from the previous relationship into a new one🤷♂️
But that's the difference between you and me maybe... I'm fine living by myself I dont feel the need to have a relationship, I think with you it's the other way around, you have a hard time being alone which is understandable as well 👌
I can be single for a while and still have my backup on standby. Just gotta put in that occasional effort to keep him interested. Anyways, I dont have a hard time being single. Apart of me prefers it because its hard for anyone to satisfy me emotionally and sexually. You keep saying “my boyfriend”. he's “my dude”. Until he's my boyfriend, i dont owe him anything but respect and i’m working towards maintaining that
The fact of the mather is that there is no respect in checking out early period. I'm pretty sure that when your "dude" pulls that trick on you, you are going to be pissed af 😂
Although i would prefer he not, its almost expected. We technically pulled it on eachother our first month but came to terms and been goin strong. Sometimes you just need to be called out to get it together