Is it normal for a partner to decline calls and also not text after for hours?

[Anonymous]

School started back up and my girlfriend lately has been declining my calls a lot even outside of class hours. She often goes the whole morning and afternoon without sending me a single message and then I call and she just hits decline and sends me nothing still until late at night. She said she would send me a small quick text to let me know what's going on as for why she declined the call, but she doesn't do that. I try to be very understanding if she is really busy but it doesn't seem like it should be so hard to send me a small message. I have no idea if i'm being too needy or not. one of my friends said she would freak out and start spam calling if her boyfriend did that. I was curious what more people think.

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[Singing_Hollow]

No one is too busy to call or text the person they care about, period! Ask yourself this, 'do I want someone who plays games like this or am I worth so much more' You can be a little string puppet or man up and walk away.

[Kevsker]

Yes, it's normal to not text your boyfriend for almost an entire day.

No, it's not normal to decline calls and not send a single message about why you couldn't pick up.

Don't know what her age is, but if she's in highschool it might just be that she's not very needing of that much attention every day, but if she's in college you might want to start asking some questions. Either way I'd start with asking her why she declines the calls and for what reason.

[JustinTheGreat]

No. Yes people get busy and aren’t gonna be able to respond to their partner 24/7 but it takes two seconds to send a text that says “hey I’m gonna busy with school work today. I’ll talk to you when I can”

It’s definitely weird

[provokeesmokee]

Not normal at all. Though depends on her school schedule.

Definitely worth a serious talk, because it doesn't sound to me like she's very able to be in a relationship right now. She's just too busy.

[WhitneySnow]

That is not normal unless she’s super busy at the time you called. And nobody’s that busy all day every day (at least not people my age or college age like you and I guess her).

[RavVid]

It is at least rude. She has lost interest in you. Ditch the bitch.

[DizzyDesii]

I’d wonder who she's around when she declines your call…

[EZontheyez]

Sounds like she may just have a lot going on... Whether it's personal, school, family etc but she does need to communicate that to you at least instead of declining your calls. I would have a talk with her about how you feel and see how she responds.

[LiamJHayden]

What you describe, no. I would have ended it already.

[Nemesis2k7]

No. Its a power play. If someone is interested, they will respond

[EZontheyez]

Amen

[Night_Angel]

If he doesn't say why, it's not normal. It means he is angry.

[Avicenna]

Nope

[In_Trance]

How long have you been with her?

[Asker]

1 year 8 months

[In_Trance]

So you've definitely established normalcy with her

[LegendaryDater]

I don't think so.

[jeffend888]

Who's going to tell him?

[Flatmanlewis]

Not me. He’s going to have to learn this lesson on his own me thinks.

[Anonymous]

No it’s not

[Anonymous]

Yeah