From our relationship. I actually asked a question a while back about how she told me she would have "dumped me in a heartbeat" if her ex wanted her back. That was about 4 months into our relationship. She did go on to say that she is finally over him and she is in love with me but knowing she would have dumped me after that long of being together, not only hurt me but pissed me off! Now this. I didn't get pissed, I just told her we should take a break (not break up). Of course she became even more hysterical and suddenly I'm the asshole! So, I did decide to stay but I think once everything dies down, I really have no choice but to end it. When I asked for advice about her saying she would have went back to her ex when her and I were together, most of you said to dump her. So, I think I will be doing the right thing.
Woah dude, that's intense. I don't blame you for feeling pissed and hurt after she admitted she'd dump you for her ex! And now this reaction to him being engaged? Not a good look.
I can see why asking for a break isn't unreasonable under the circumstances. You need space to process your feelings without her dramatics. Just be firm but also gentle about it - you care about her, but her actions made you lose trust and you both need time.
Sticking it out right now seems like it'll just prolong the pain. Give each other some time and perspective. Who knows, maybe down the road things will be different once you've healed. But for now, trust those initial instinct to end it. You deserve someone who's fully over their ex and choses you 100%.
Don't let her tears guilt you - stand your ground. Break ups suck, but staying in an iffy relationship won't help anyone. Have courage in your decision man. You got this! Feel free to vent to me anytime too. Stay strong!
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You should have left her when she said she would dump you if her ex wanted to get back together. The fact that she started crying when she heard he's engaged means she wishes it was her getting engaged to him. She's clearly still in love with her ex and there is no room in her heart for you at this present juncture. Leave her.
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Sounds like she got into the relationship to try and make her ex jealous. Play stupid games and win stupid prizes. I think you are correct in the need to end it.
I think you can do better than her. You don't seem like her first choice in a partner
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