My boyfriend, my good friend and I were chilling at a skate park, we were all cuddling which I was fine with, but as I was laying in his lap, my friend starts licking his neck, at that point I was uncomfortable and they decided to stop. Now, at another point, I was still laying in my boyfriend lap, and my friend who I’ve only known for a few months gets on top of my waist, my boyfriend is holding me, and my waist is being pinned down by my friend, I’m a small girl so O can’t move, my friend presses his face against mine, which presses agains my bf’s. It was really uncomfortable, and I don't know what to do.
- u
That is cheating. Physical contact that has any sort of sexual connotation is cheating. What is more important is how you view it. I don't get the update to your question or what that means. Simple matter of fact they had intimate contact. Could it have been worse? Yeah sure but that isn't the point. People can cheat with no contact at all. That is called emotional cheating. I don't see a whole lot of respect from your boyfriend or your friend. The fact that you are calling her a good friend is odd to me because that sorta person wouldn't do that if she was a good friend.
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oh my god i would be livid. you are young so it seems like your boyfriend doesn't take your relationship seriously if he is allowing this to happen. and yes that is cheating.
That would appear to be cheating in my book. Hugs and handshakes are generally an excepted form of affection, but licking and kissing is pushing a boundary that I certainly wouldn't be comfortable with in my own relationship. They seem to be hiding behind the guise of femboy /furry behavior. Not OK.
This sounds weird. Your good friend is a guy and he was licking your boyfriend's neck and your boyfriend was ok with that as well as cuddling with your male friend? Then he sits on your stomach and presses his face against yours.
Not many guys would have been ok with this.
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Sounds like your boyfriend and friend have been intimate together before. It’s bit bold to just start licking your bfs neck with you right there. Sounds like they’ve been acquainted previously. Femboy…furry….. yeah you don’t want nothing to do that. boyfriend will be cheating on you with him before long.
Break up, break up now. You are the third wheel to their relationship. If you are meant to be in a monogamous relationship, he is already cheating on you with your male friend. That is sexualized contact...
it's cheating if you view it as such. cheating is defined by those in the relationship. so you have to determine if it is cheating and make it clear how you feel about it
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As soon as I read u was all cuddling I was wondering why this question is being asked lol
Ofcourse is cheating... as long as there existed "contact"...🤷♂️
Why would you be cuddling with anyonexl besides your boyfriend? Fucking weird.
No. Men can do whatever they want, and nothing is considered cheating.
Ick I’m sorry babe, this is super uncomfortable for you. Just as an outsider it looks like you and your boyfriend may not be a good fit. Good luck ❤️!
that is cheating
That would freak me out too
Why would you be friends with this person?
What the actual...
Depends on whom that person is.
thats pretty weird
I think so.
that's cheating
Not cheating but weird.
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